5 Things to do When You Recognize a Soul Mate

I know I am connected to my soul mate psychically in this life and in another life too. I actually have past/concurrent life recognition. I can see scenes from when we have interacted together from what seems from another time on Earth. Now what?

First off, how do I know? Well the short answer is that as soon as I connected with this person it was as if I had known them forever and the first meeting was like reconnecting with my closest dearest friend. This person knew me better than any other individual has in this life time so far, without time to get to know me in this life time. And I believe the reverse was true as well. We were both asking the question, “What gives?”

I have known some soul mates that have found one another to do things like finish one another’s sentences immediately or be able to offer deep comfort first meeting. Upon finding this person You will probably feel compelled to know them better and to find out what makes him or her seem so familiar.

Not every coming together of two spirits is as enjoyable as reconnecting souls that have loved somewhere else in another space-time continuum. Sometimes You are drawn to a person and there is an instant dislike and You are just like a moth drawn to the light. This type of attraction is more likely about karmic debt (karmic debt can also show up in enjoyable connections as well), that one or both of You are in need of tending to. It probably does not indicate that the two of You are just two souls that have played and danced together and continue to come together in more than one lifetime for the pure joy of it.

The challenge comes when I ask myself what to do with this information and this intimately desired connection. Are we to be friends, lovers, partners in life, or just passing by one another to remind us of the joy that can be experienced in dancing with another. Is there another way soul mates can support one another on our respective paths?

Meet a soul mateIn my mind I know, I do not know this person on an Earth level in this life time and yet I have come into contact with them here, on Earth, in this life time.

Why did I meet my soul mate?

Am I supposed to create something with my soul mate in this lifetime? Is there a specific reason I came together with this person?

Is my soul mate here to cause me to re-evaluate my life and beliefs?

Do we have something we are supposed to do together or learn from one an other? Is it even an intentional thing?

What have I been focusing on creating in my life that would cause this connection to happen in my life at this time?

What if the person that showed up in my life, a soul mate is unwilling to recognize the connection and chalks it up as imagination?

If Your life has room to fit this person in the way You feel is right for You, easily, then the questions diminish greatly. It is when You have commitments to others, that are real to You, and things do not seem to jive, that it starts getting trickier if You are not grounded.

With out being really honest with yourself and the persons around You this kind of connection could even be destructive.

Here are five things to do when You recognize a soul mate:

1) Listen to your guides and move forward at a pace that works for You. Find ways to get to know one another in this life time just as You would any other soul in physical form.

2) Ask for spiritual guidance in releasing the energy of other life times, so You can be clear in this one. When You allow a past/concurrent life to bring a soul mate to You it has done what it was meant to do, help You recognize one another.

3) The next step might be for the two of You to decide individually (and possibly together) which way the connection is best going to serve You.  Listen for the inspired knowing and actions that come with this gift.

4) By listening to and integrating the reality of your life and the spiritual guidance that You receive, there will be a successful recognition of this gift across the dimensions and You will know what the two spirits in these physical bodies are meant to do with one another this time around. Be open to all the different ways You might be able to support one another in this life time.

5) What ever else comes of this re-connection use the feelings of joy, recognition, and excitement to create what You desire in your life.

This can be an amazing experience and one I hope everyone allows themselves sometime in each life time. It isn’t always easy to accept that which we can not measure, verify or even understand. It takes a level of trust in the mystery of life and in one’s self to allow this kind of connection to blossom.

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  1. That’s amazing… I’ve always wondered about past lives and how I got here ………..I moved then met this guy who showed me like a new religion and it’s feels like that was supposed to happen (can’t really describe it) because I was really depressed and stuff maybe he was here to show me the light

    • Hi Rigby,
      Thank You for taking time to comment. I love when something happens and I just know it was meant to. I am also so glad that You have some light in your life and were willing to allow it to come to You through your experience with this person.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

  2. I have meet my soul mate and we both recognized the connection almost immediately. Thank you for this article because I was not sure what to do with this situation. I feel I could marry him tomorrow. I will do some soul searching and be open to what the reason or purpose is for our reuniting.
    Thanks!!

  3. I am in a marriage that I am not happy in. I am not supported emotionally in marriage and is very unhappy. I have a 7 year old daughter. I recently met someone on a spiritual training workshop where I felt a deep connection. I felt so comfortable and ease with this person like I knew him already. I am experiencing alot of pain and longing to be witj tjis person and I know he feels attracted to me too, but he is kind of not reachable emotionally. What do I do. Please help. I cannot function properly and hav lost my job too because I could not focus.

  4. Thank you for this, it is so hard when you recognize someone and can’t be in contact with them.
    I have had this going on since August of 1996 when I saw this man for the first time.

    The worst part is he is famous, and so very difficult to approach from the regular world.

    So many times I have called my sanity into question, and anguished over what I was to do with these memories, some of them exquisitely painful. Losing him to a hopeless battle, finding him there, closing his eyes… every time I see him, the scene comes back to me. So clearly, I lose my sight of what’s in front of me. I want to be free of the pain, but my heart is relentless; I refuse to let them destroy our bond even though they killed our bodies. I will hold the bond high in Spirit even if it hurts, until I can reconcile with him.

    Thank you for the appetizer that this article is, I need more like this and to find the answers, WITH HIM. But I have no idea how, and whether I should try to force such an occurrence.

    So, I sigh, and leave this open letter to the Universe.
    Bring us into the same breathing space so we can be, at last….Vindicated.
    Love. P

    • Thank You for sharing Pamela! I so hope that You can use this experience to help You remember that You are divine and that in witnessing for one another we can move more fully into the new energies where beliefs can be questions and revised and the concept of duality can be released.

      May You ask the questions that bring You the answers supporting clarity and joy while You live the fullness of what life has to offer!
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy

  5. Thank you for sharing. I wonder if you could advise me on something that has troubled me deeply for many years. I believe I met my soulmate at 13 years old, and he is no longer in my life. We were best friends immediately, and tried the romantic thing out a couple times, but we never made it fit. I became misguided, and moved many miles away at age 19. However, I dreamed about him every week, and some weeks every night, from age 13 until now. He has been a constant dream companion for over a decade. I miss him like an ache, even though we haven’t known each other in 8 years, and we have kept in touch only in the minimalist sense(friends on Facebook) I know we were meant for each other in my core, and believe we spent past life time together as well.
    I believe he has some awareness of this connection too, as we share something that is hard to put into words – I reached out to him last year and he jumped at the chance to meet, but when I responded and tried to set something up, he ignored it and that week, became engaged. He is now married, and actually visits my dreams much less now. I know he must be unhappy in his marriage and I have no reason to believe it, but I just do. I know I’ll reconnect with him again after this life, but it is such a hard reality to be faced with – how many more years of missing him are ahead of me? Or should I try to make him remember?

    • Hi Dreamer,

      Whatever You think that You will have by being with this person is what You are asked to find for yourself first. I can only imagine that it is difficult for You if You are this energetically connected and recognize the connection. Especially when You believe he does not recognize or value this connection. I have heard that although we can feel into another we really have to be honest about what we are picking up and what we are projecting onto another. I suggest that You ask your guides and the universe to support You in recognizing what is in the best interest and highest good for You. Can You trust that the universe has heard your every wish and desire and can put those together into life better than? That it is your job to move now into the mode of allowing those wishes and desires come to You without resisting. The most important thing You can do is prepare and know yourself in the most connected way that brings You joy so that if You are meant to be with this individual You will allow it to happen without any forcing.

      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy

  6. I have met my soulmate. I felr that instamt connection. Like i have known them forever. My feelings were so deep and strong. I do believe one day we will be together. It feels as thought things between us are not finished.

    • Hi Lynda,
      It sounds like You are getting clear information around this. It is an interesting time we live in, taking baby steps towards living fully from love and leaving the fear behind. I hope You find wonderful ways to be love in your completion of the business between You and your soulmate!
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy

  7. Help…I feel my soulmate is waiting for me. In college(1996-97) I met a guy who at first I could not stand. He is a Pisces and I am a Capricorn..so see the irritation from the first beginning? lol, anyway….He asked me out and we meshed very well as if we have always known each other. I remember having serious conversations, willingness to agree to disagree and having gut busting laughter. Infact we both decided on our official dateas a couple would be Thankksgiving day for being thankful that we found eachother! (I think about that every thanksgiving by the way) Till this day I have never been so somfortable around someone. We were really hitting if off, well during our time together, I moved away and I knew he was hurt I felt his pain, heard t in his voice, seen it in his eyes as if he was losing the best thing for him. As I too felt horrible when I moved away…About a year later he saw a mutual friend that had my info and called me up…I was ecstatic to hear from him, he was happy to hear my voice, once again we began talking like no time passed…But this is when he told me that he just had a baby girl. I was happy for him but broken hearted at the same time, could not understand why because we had been broken apart for 1yr and a few months(around 1999).After that conversation, I made a special trip to see him and his baby and then lost all contact…..Fast forward to now (14yrs later) thanks to FB and mutual friends. I sent him a friend request…Immediatly he got my phone number and called me up. This time I’m in a relationship that has been going on for the last 8yrs, I have a 4yrs son and ready to get out by the time my ex contacts me. We talk and he respects the fact that I am in a relationship so he keeps it short and quick. I have to be honest, the little time we spokeIt was once again like we never lost contact, we just picked up where we left of 14yrs before. Because I am in the process of getting out of my current relationship, I feel a serious pull to keep incontact with my ex-who I honsetly feel that the universe keeps trying to put us together. Should I let it be or rekindle a relationship with my old love? Do I slowly ask him about how he feels about our past interactions? He keeps asking me to come to his perfomances but timing once again never works? Will I have to just make a special trip just as I did before, oh and one time I sent him a text that said “I cant help but wonder lately where we would have ended up If I never moved away” his reply..”Lets Just Kiss” see funny but intriguing at the same dame time. HellllllllP

    • Hi Lovingme1st,
      Love, love, love your user name! Your paths keep crossing and only You can know what your true path is. When You get quiet inside and You think about going to see him, how do You feel? How You feel points You in the right direction. It takes more courage to be honest with someone about how You feel and what You have experienced than most anything else. Can You do that without concern of reciprocation? Are You loving yourself first in rekindling this flame? Is just the thought of a relationship with this person causing You to value yourself more than You would normally? Last question, what do You have to lose?
      Normally it isn’t questions I offer to answer questions and this time I am encouraged to let You know that by answering these questions honestly from a heart centered place, You will have your answer and You will better be able to trust it.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy

  8. I never believe in the notion of soul mate etc because I though people use the term to try convince others that their connection is special or outside of the world,until I met someone. When I first met this person there were no spark flying nor instant attraction until we went out one night .I wasnt too eager to hang with him because he was already involved with someone overseas. We were just talking about life and personal issues when I suddenly got a mental picture of the universe in which our souls had a connection.I never ever had that happening to me and I questioned myself many times whether or not I created this image in my head.He told me that he has also felt that connection that he cannot describe from our first meeting.We tend to think the same thing simultaneously even when we are miles apart , there is a comfort level between us,like we have known each other all our lives , a closeness and friendship to die for , and out of this world sexually experience.But all this means nothing if he unable to
    commit fully to me and that is the issue.I have tried on many occasions to walk away but we keep going back but walk away I must

    • Hey DestinyIHearUCalling,
      Isn’t it interesting how things can sneak up on You even if You don’t really believe. I hope on your journey with this one that You are so connected to that You can remember that sometimes it is about being opened to something and allowing that opening in yourself. I agree that without full commitment it is difficult to have a relationship and You must do what feels right for You to do. I do encourage You to consider what it might look like for the two of You to consider transforming the way You come together. Not all of the individuals in our lives that we feel a ‘coming home’ with are meant to be our primary partners. Sometimes they come into our lives to remind us to find a deeper commitment and connection with ourselves. When we do that then the level of commitment and connection deepening with another is possible as well. I hope that this connection has opened You to the possibilities that are within as well as out there for You.
      In heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy

  9. Doesn’t it bother you that every time you are reborn, every memory you hold most dear of somebody you love is stripped away from you? I’d rather not lose memories of my current husband. I am scared of learning more about my past lives because I don’t think I can handle remembering precious memories that I fought to keep yet still lost.

    How could I forget somebody I pledge eternity to?
    A daughter that I risked my life for?

    The worst part being you can pass them on the street and not even recognize who they are…

    • Hi Stacy,

      Thank You for sharing here. I strongly believe that remembering or not remembering is a choice, for a reason, and/or agreement. I always intend that what serves me to be conscious of, I am. Imagine if the last act of a play was just stuck in the middle somewhere and did nothing to bring all the rest of the acts to completion.
      This one is a little challenging as well since the concept of time is not linear for me. Past lives/concurrent lives, pledging eternity all suggests that there are many things from a physical perspective we might not have full understanding of. It is the reason Christy and I teach people to more fully connect to the larger part of themselves, the spirit of You. The part of You that understands and is expanding all the time. The part of You that has the capacity for it all and is flowing into your physical existence to the degree that You are willing in any moment. I encourage You to find silence in your physical self and then ask the questions that You feel will most serve You. Watch around in your life for the answers to come while You continue to focus on breathing through any emotion that comes up.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy

  10. It’s just so uncanny. I met this guy in a game chat room. And I felt this incredibly strong connection instantly. I know him. I feel his presence with me all the time. When I close my eyes at night, I can almost feel his presence. We have both marveled at this. I have never believed in reincarnation. I always thought you lived and then you died – end of story. This is all so new to me. But I can’t argue away that bond. And the strangest of it all is that I constantly feel the need to be hugged by him. Like his arms are my safe haven. A place that I belong. All so strange and new, but utterly mind blowing!

  11. Hi ,I am happily married with a loving family.6 months back I met someone who I feel a deep connection with, I feel I know him for ages but I don’t know how he feels.We met at a class for only 6days,after that its been 4 months since I last saw him ,we do talk occasionally on the phone but I feel a connection ,I don’t think he does.Its like if he is sad ,I am sad.If he is travelling somewhere I know that he is .I feel it when he is happy, sad,not well,I can feel him,see him when I close my eyes,even with open eyes he stands in front of me without being there.
    I sleep I think of him,am awake am with him,I work I feel him ,sometimes I breath I feel him.Its taking over my life,all I do is think about him and wonder if it is happening to him too.I don’t know if I should tell him.
    We share a weird relationship ,sometimes when I call he talks to me, sometimes he just doesn’t take my call.sometimes I just feel like I need to hear his voice just to know that he is fine,when I need him most to know all is well with him he just disappears ,so am emotionally drained out thinking and praying that he is fine.
    In the past 6months I have realised that 1st I was in denial ,then I accepted the fact that he definitely is someone who I have a past life connection.
    I sometimes want to tell him but am not sure whether I should ,I wonder if he will feel it too.
    Someone pls help me ,it’s too difficult for me to handle.I feel am slipping away.My life has come to a stand still.Am neglecting my family n work.
    Another thing is that someone told me he is gay,though he did not say it to me personally, when I asked him he did not comment.
    And he is also single.i don’t know why my heart goes out to him .Like he is looking for something or someone I feel i know that he is looking for me.
    He is like a magnet that pulls me emotionally .
    Can anyone pls help me.
    Regards,
    Sebamm.

    • Hi SEbamm,
      Sounds like you’ve met someone you resonates with you on a very deep level. I would do your best to integrate the energy he stirs up and try to ground it. The Heal Yourself program has tools and techniques that could help you with this. I’m sure he feels it too. True soul level love would honor your physical agreements you have going with your family. Do your best to center yourself in this energy. Trust that if it serves you, you’ll find the opportunity to discuss it with him at some point.
      Blessings!
      Christy

      • Hi Christy,
        Thank you for replying.
        Can you tell me what if he doesn’t feel the connection ,what am i to do?
        Can it be possible that one person feels connected the other doesn’t ?
        Also I always see him hugging me with both of us not saying a word to each other,there is no other physical contact apart from a hug and tears ?what does this mean?
        Sometimes when I close my eyes tears keep rolling out continuously but am not crying ,I don’t understand this.

        When you say that he is someone who resonates with me on a deep level ,r u saying he has been a part of my past life in a big way ,that I owe him something or vice versa?
        Warm Regards,
        Sebamm.

  12. Hi,
    I am married to a great man, whom i love and loves me, but i know he is a life partner rather than a soulmate. I have known someone for years, whom is also married, and with whom I did have this certain click with from the beginning. He has recently come into my life, and I cant help talking to him everyday about everything and nothing. We finish eachothers sentences, I know what he is thinking, I feel him and he scares me to what extent he knows me . Sometimes more than myself, I have described him as the male me. We are too similar its so weird. I have been wondering for so long why this is happening now, and what i should make of this relationship, and I thought I would google it (as you do ) . I believe we met eachother to help eachother. But is this wrong? Even though nothing has happened between us , I feel guilty. How can I clear my mind and know what this is?

    • Hello,
      Sounds like you’ve met a soulmate, or perphaps a twin soul. We can tell you that twin souls always repsect each other’s physical agreements, even when the spiritual connection is so strong. Please do your best to know that you deserve loving relationships and release your guilt. You sound like you’ve been in integrity. If you feel more communication between you and your husband is called for please follow your guidance. As often, connections outside the marriage come to remind us what is possible, not only with others, but in our current relationships.
      Many blessings,
      Christy

  13. Hi,

    I believe a man I met 6 months ago through work is a soul mate from a past life. When we first met there was an instant spark as strong as a lightning bolt between us, but only for an instant. I remember walking away from our first meeting and thinking to myself “what just happened?!”.

    He is in a relationship with another woman and has been for the past 6 years however I don’t believe he is truly happy with her but she is safe for him and he is comfortable. I know that we have a deep connection to one another because we are not able to completely distance ourselves from each other.

    I can also sense when he is stressed or unwell. When I see him I feel in complete comfort with him as though he keeps me safe. He makes me feel extremely feminine as he is very much a gentleman and I am very much a lady.

    I get the feeling that we were together in a past life in an Elizabethan era. I don’t feel like we had children however we had lots of land and he had a very successful business.

    In present day, he has a very successful family business that his dad started thirty years ago and he will soon manage. I also have a very successful business and I know that if we ever got together that we could accomplish great things.

    The most important thing for me is that he’s happy. I don’t feel jealous of her, although I would like to be with him as I feel like the universe will dissolve their relationship and bring us together naturally if that is what’s meant to happen.

    All I care about is his happiness and if he is happy with her then so be it. We have never really spoken about the connection as I don’t feel I can with him because he is committed to her. When we catch up for work coffee’s it’s almost like I wish we weren’t in public so we could have this private conversation but I’m not sure if he feels it too.

    Has anyone else experienced something like this before? What is the best thing for me to do? Do I continue going on as we are and see what the universe decides or do I completely distance myself from him and let him live his life free of me?

    • Hi Oli,
      Thanks for writing. I love that you are so aware and conscious of the past life connection. I would ask your guides to show you the most benevolant course of action for how to handle your relaitonship with him. Then listen. If it’s the most benevolant outcome for all concerned you may have your chance with him. Or perhaps he showed up to remind you of the kind of love you wish to allow in your life next. Judy and I would love to look into this in a reading for you, if you’d like. In either case, your spiritual awareness shows through and your love for him as you are willing to let his current commitment play itself out without interfering.
      In light!
      Christy

  14. When i saw my professor, let’s call him Mark, it was like he took my breath away. I can’t believe a seemingly mature girl like me could get into this immature kinda thing! And i have a gut feeling that somehow he feels different about me too. Like the other day when he was handing the paper to the whole class, then when he looked at me, the look on his face was kinda awkward, which i find quite surprised. Or maybe i’m having a crush on him so I just become paranoid and imagine impossible things! But anyway, i know nothing could ever happen between us. I just wanna forget him ASAP. But whenever he’s around, i can still feel like he feels something about me too. I know it makes no sense because there’s no way he ever has a crush on one of his students! That’s unethical. I just feel it. It’s hard to explain. And I just walked past him in the street the other day when i was walking to the subway station, he didn’t see me and i didn’t realize it was him until we had already passed each other. He’s the first professor i’ve ever walked past on the street and he doesn’t even live near there. I hope it means something.

    • Hi Amanda,
      It sounds like You are sensitive to the energetic connections that we all have to others. As we all know there is a stronger connection with some people than others. We have moved into a time when connections come to our attention more than ever. It is challenging to understand why this person or that one sometimes. Often people we connect with are a reminder to reconnect on a deeper level with ourselves first and foremost. From that greater connection with the larger part of ourselves comes a clear path to what serves in connection with another. Connect with your self first, providing for yourself what You think would be the positive outcomes of connecting with another, and then see what is next. Your ability to imagine the happiness of connection is more important than societal beliefs, as long as what You imagine is in alignment with what You believe.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy

  15. Well as many, I met a man that I feel is my soulmate. We had been working on a job site and one day our eyes connected and itwas as if we were reuniting…What a strange feeling it was. I kept the thought in my mind for several weeks until one day I walked into the office and there he was. As if my long lost love had shown up at my doorstep. We shared a few minutes of conversation, then he continued with his meeting. As soon as he left I asked my fellow workmate about him. He was married… Oh well I thought, I suppose my feeling was wrong. Several days later I receive a call, it was him. Asking for advise on a work related issue. We spoke for over an hour, we have been connected ever since. I am older than him, but know that we have been guided to share a moment in our lives together. What this moment will bring I do not know. We can feel each other from a distance, we share so many common likes and share so much passion for the beauty that surrounds us. We talked today about our relationship, we so love each other it is much more than passion, it is deep within our souls, I mentioned to him that I know that we have had a passionate love for one another in another life time. He agreed, we were adventurers together. I asked him to think about this and the next time we meet to share our thoughts of our past life together (we called it our story), he said that he had so many memories of us, he was older than I, he mentioned much older. We shared a love for nature, rode horseback everywhere, I mentioned that I felt like there was an amazing river where we would share many times together. I have contemplated our relationship for so many months, there was this underlying guilt in my thoughts, it is there every once and a while, I often wonder if he and his spouse share emotions as deep as ours. I have never ask him about his relationship with his wife. I know that have a wonderful friendship and they will share the rest of this life together. This saddens me, but the joy of our moments is too precious to let go of. I feel I should let go, but I know in my heart and soul that we have only begun this journey, I feel we are meant to learn something very valuable from one another, and if I let go, my journey will not be complete.
    Please advise
    Daydmtucson

    • Hi Daydmtucson,

      You, as so many are experiencing these days, have a connection. It sounds like a very strong spiritual/energetic connection. There is so much value in recognizing these connections. Often they are a strong catalyst in our own personal, emotional, spiritual growth. Something that I hold strong too is the understanding that spiritual connections have high integrity and always recognize and respect man made agreements. I do wish more of humanity was willing to also recognize spiritual agreements and believe that as we all remember our spiritual origins that this will change. If You find ways to feel good about this connection and stay in integrity with your agreements I can see the fulfillment of the value You see in this connection/friendship. It may not always be in physical and your openness to experience this connection on all levels will also serve greatly.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy

  16. I wanted to jump in and state that I am with my soulmate. We are going on 20 years and we met when we were 15. I felt sparks the first time we met and I looked into his eyes. We’ve had things in life happen to us that caused short separations and we’ve learned to forgive and move past any negativity that resides in the past. Even with the knowledge of who we were, which was not very respectful of each other as we were learning how to mature, we still both admit that we would do it all over again because each of us was worth it. To be where we are now and to have the future we have in front of us creates great enjoyment.

    I couldn’t imagine my life without him in it. I couldn’t imagine what the trials and tribulations of my past would have been like in my life had he not been in it.

    I enjoy seeing him each and every day. I enjoy the sparkle in his eyes when he looks at me with love. I enjoy the words of others when they say, “I have to meet the man that makes your eyes light up like that.”

    I don’t fear that he will leave or we will split when we argue; it’s just a spat that needed to happen at that moment from stress or whatever outside source is impacting us at that moment. I enjoy the idea that the argument that just happened will be the only one for approximately 4-6 months.

    I enjoy his presence around me that makes me feel safe, secure, grounded. I enjoy that he says I do the same for him by just being there. I enjoy him being the complete opposite person to who I am. I enjoy that if I’m overreacting, he is my voice of reason and if he is being too firm on a subject, I am his break from his norm.

    I was going to say I was sorry for writing so much, but I am not sorry at all. I have enjoyed my time with my love. I am enjoying my present with my love. I look forward to and envision the greatness he and I together will tackle the future with.

    I would hope in life that everyone would get to experience the magnitude of what I have experienced so far.

    Thank you for letting me share.

    • Hi Christine,

      I really appreciate your sharing here. It is always wonderful to hear someone is living their dreams and experiencing joy!
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy

  17. I really like what you say about spiritual agreements and past lives. My current partner, I feel, like we made an agreement before we came to the planet to have a child together. We weren’t really involved together and do not have an emotional connection, hence why our wedding got cancelled. After the wedding was cancelled I ended up pregnant. We do not agree on a lot but we do agree on everything to do with raising a child. I’m not afraid of doing this “mission” together although I don’t feel like this is my soul mate.
    I recently did my tarot cards and it strongly signaled that a higher power was at work and that it is all for the best.

    Recently before this, I also met a man who is like the male version of me. He knew the connection too and I drove him home and this song called “Past lives” comes on the radio and he just takes my hand and looks me in the eyes and practically said that’s me. And I didn’t think it was crazy. We are both involved in whatever business we have to attend to right now but it strongly feels like we have unfinished business. Even though we can’t be together it feels like we will always be together. I do need to tell him that I recognize the connection too. I guess I wasn’t wanting to admit it to myself because I was set to be married. It feels like we’re from the same planet. Even his family. It is so strange. I guess I will find out what this all means in due time.

  18. I met my soulmate at a young age, I fell in love with his art before I ever actually met him. He is older than me, so I was very immature about our connection, I didnt know how to express myself and I was battling some inner demons at the time. Although time has pasted, I still feel the same connection. He’s probably my twin soulmate. We separated for awhile, and I experienced alot of spiritual growth when we were separated. I moved away since then, and I miss him. I’m not sure if he recognizes me.. Although, I know in my soul, if/when it’s meant to be, it’ll be. Until then I’ll build myself a life we can enjoy together.

  19. I have met mine. It’s very very hard for me.
    To see my best friend I had during 1920′s.
    It took me awhile to recognize her.
    Once I did the emotions came pouring out.
    I in turn remember my past life from that time.
    Something that has been behind my eyes for
    a very long time.
    For some reason we are meant to be together again.

  20. Hellloooo. I am nervous typing this. Well, where to start. I am a 37 year old, 11 year celibate gay male, and I met someone August 2013, itself an strange and AWESOME year for me. It took me weeks, maybe, to realize not just who, but what this person is. He is….something else. I am also a very, very strong believer in Christ Jesus. And I know for a fact, that God Himself does not (because He cannot) make a mistake in this physical world. This young man, “K”, was born April 3, 1995. I was conceived April 3, 1976. I have NEVER felt this way about another human being. I have had 2 romantic, mostly healthy relationships with females, and a long, lonely bro-mance, with a guy, also an Aries, like “K”. I have not seen “K” since December 16. I do not obsess over other humans and I live a completely normal, full-time, sober, active, thinking, participating life full of friends and family and Facebooking and prayer, but this young man will NOT leave me be in my thoughts. I feel so unusual about this. He has me SPUN. -Joshua (J before K)

    • Hi Joshua,
      Thanks for sharing. Sounds like you’ve met someone who has you hoping. I’m sure the path will unfold in a way that serves both of your highest good.
      In light,
      Christ

  21. Hi, here is my weird story. I grew up abused and when in high school met a boy who showed me love like I never new. I think we held hands but Iloved him. I know I had a lot of Isues and I messed up. He slept with my friend at the time and got her prepregnant. My heart broke in so many ways, I honestly closed it off. I used to sing and music was a personal thing we shared. I stopped singging. I hated music and became unemotional to it. This was back in 95.

    I grew up got married had seven children. I did not believe in God or life after death, I did not believe in love till I had my own child.

    In 2009 I gave birth to an angel. He had 2 rare forms of brain cancer and he led me to God, and I was shown the spiritual world and spiritual connections and gifts. Its now 2014 and I was contacted threw fb from all these childhood friends. It was the first time I though of the boy who held they key to my heart I was eager to find out how he was. I became obsessed for three days. I finally came across his picture and those spiritual gifts started to take over. His picture looked at me as if he was infront of me. I dropped my computer on the floor. I cried out what did you do. I feel to my knees and prayed. I began to sing Amazing Grace, I gave not sang. I felt the holy spirt in ftont of me, I said I will carry his cross. I will take up for his sins, I cried and talked about him as if I new him. I was willing to give up my pkace in heaven if it ment he would be safe and with his loved ones. As you read this please know this is all happening faster then my brain can processes it. I know things I really dont know. I said to him call out his name, take his hand and leave this place. Your chains are gone, you have been set free. I felt a love for him and a willingness to sacrifice my eternal place as long as he was safe. I have not thought of this boy since the 94.

    since this I have agreed to acept this gift or curse from God and told him if the spiritual relm is were he needed me to do his work show me what to do. Things started changing. He came to me. That day I set him free he asked me a question my ears did not hear him but I said yes. It has haunted me what he asked me.

    so I find myself meditating, and he comes forward. I ask god to confirm tjis is real and not my head making this up. We talked, he reveled to me that when he took his own life he was shown his past. He told me he new I was ment to save him, he just did not know to how it would happen. He told me he looked into my past things I never told him or anyone and he was so sorry for us not working out. He asked me if I wanted to know what he asked me that I had agreed to. I said of course. He said it was revieled to him that we were soulmates. He said he new I would save him the second he remember meeting me all tjose years ago. He was reminded of that connection. However he said he was blown away by the love of my spirit. That I freely told God I would live eternity in hell if he would be saved, because I new with gods love I could survive hell, but I could not watch him suffer. He needed to be were he would see his children again. He said that kind of love he wanted and waited to feel his whole life, and with me not knowing or understanding what was happening my obediance to do what god asked and have such a love, he was told I was his soulmate. He then asked me when I die will I spend eternity with him. He told me to l8ve my husband and to love life for he is always with me and when I die he is waiting for our life to start. He told me my love is a gift from God and he and some family I did not know even cared about me loved me and claimed me as theres. …. I feel more conceted and loved in the spirit world then I do in this one. Part of me knows my brain could not have made this up as it all happened so fast and in meditation. But I also know its a out there thing and I really have no experience in the spiritual world. Any one have experience with this?

    • Hi Vanessa,
      Sounds like you set your heart free. You’re open and loving heart is the connection and way to communicate with loved ones who’ve crossed over. You’ve surrendered your personal will to be an instrument of divine love and light. Always trust your own spiritual intuition and communication. Know that you’re not making it up. You are open and willing, so the information and messages can come through for you.
      In loving light,
      Christy

  22. I believe that I might have actually found my soul mate, someone who I was connected to at one time. When I look at him, this overwhelming feeling of familiarity comes over me, as if I’ve been with him, as if I’ve touched his face before, as if we were connected. Everything about him, his mannerisms and his speech, the way he walks, everything is so familiar to me, as if he and I have spent years and years together.
    The only thing is, I have never even spoken to him, and in fact we are complete strangers to each other. I happen to see him every day, on my commute going to work. When I first noticed him I gave no thought to him, except I noticed how he was always looking at me, or choosing his seat to sit near me, or walking very near me upon exiting the train. Again, I didn’t think anything of it and thought that we were just simply attracted to each other until one day we came within very close proximity of each other while exiting the train and I felt…..some kind of real physical reaction. Like my stomach dropped, my heart was pounding so loud in my head and my knees shook. And any time after that, any time we are near each other, there’s like a magnetic pull. I can feel like a strange sensation of being pulled to him, and he tends to hover and lean into me and when I’m near him I feel, comfort and safe and secure. A feeling of “I belong here, standing next to this man.”
    I should mention that this has been going on almost every day for close to 10 years and that I’m a grown woman and not a lovesick teenager! And I should also mention that he is not my type at all. He’s not someone I probably would have ever considered dating when I was single. And I’m not his type either, that’s for sure. Yet, we are so very drawn to each other. I can tell he’s drawn to me as I am drawn to him. But we are both married, and I don’t want to ruin anything at home, and I’m sure he feels the same.
    But I do have this unquenchable insane desire to just be with him, or talk to him, or laugh with him or just hold his hand. And sometimes, we make eye contact and it has me reeling, his eyes almost change color when our eyes connect, it’s like they’re bursting with color. For too many years this has been going on and I’ve felt so confused for so long about WHY I felt so strongly about this person that I do not know. And so I’m writing here today because, I want to figure out a way to…maybe help HIM to also see that maybe we are connected. I’ve tried to reach out a few ways; a random smile, an attempt at conversation, but anytime we get into that kind of situation he is like a deer in headlights!! I feel that if maybe he and I just TALKED then we can both get some kind of closure, (or maybe I could get some kind of closure on these very strong feelings I have for him). Or maybe a beautiful friendship can come of it. I just know that I have very strong feelings for this person, and I wish I could know if he feels the same way so that I could quiet my soul!

    • Hi Sofia,

      It sounds like You have a perfect inspiration for accepting your wholeness. For many when coming in contact with a strong clear mirror, they believe it is to be with them physically. When in reality for most it is a beautiful call back to ‘Self’. Watch for ways You can gain greater connection with the spiritual/larger part of You and trust in the evolution of any other connections that come from that.
      In Spirit Centered Awareness.
      Judy

  23. I strongly feel I have met my soulmate. We have this deep, warm connection and I feel as though we could talk forever. I hope to get to know him better in the future and need guidance of what to do next.

    • Hi Elle,
      I’m so happy for you. We would love to give You support by connecting with you in a reading and give you specific and practical guidance.
      Thanks for being in touch.
      Christy

  24. The questions you ask in you blog have finally led me to an answer, to a deeper understanding. And I am very thankful for that. I
    I have met a man 1.5 years ago and we had an instant connection. He has been so important to me and my personal transformation although our relation is purely platonic. But I feel a deep love and connection, and yes I have clear visions of our past lives together. But every time I wanted to open up to him he stepped away, couldn’t deal with it. I think I feel his fear somehow. And still we are colleagues and love each others company.
    My love for him is huge! And it drives me crazy sometimes because I long to be with him. So in despair I found your website because I wanted to find out the meaning of our coming together. I had a meditation on it, asked my angels for help, and now I know: I have to help him to believe in himself, to connect him to his heart. i now Realize that he already asked me to do this…
    And there is my biggest fear, I have promised myself that I would never ever help a lover/boyfriend anymore. Because I have lost myself doing that while I was married to a narcissistic husband. So there it is, a beautiful learning experience for both of us.
    I don’t know how I will put this into action but the universe will help me with I guess :-) perhaps you have some tips.
    Already grateful,
    Love W

    • Hi W,
      I loved hearing the answer You received. What if helping him to believe in himself and connect to his heart isn’t about helping him and completely about doing this for yourself? In order for him to find his way it might take You finding greater understanding for yourself and then sharing your journey with him. I know when someone asks me for help these days my job is to hold them in the greatest vision I can imagine and flow love to that vision. Of course if someone asks me to pick up something at the store I am willing ;) When it comes to personal growth I am witness and a loyal disciple of the most benevolent outcome for them, that I can not really ever know for another. I believe as You increase your awareness around connecting to your heart and hold a trusting vision of things being exactly how they are meant to be You will find a new joy in the relating.
      In Spirit Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn