How Do You Know if You are Connected to Someone Psychically?

Are You noticing a stronger attraction to someone, than normal?  Do You remember dreams where the person You are feeling connected to shows up, in your dream, but they look different?

Does it seem like maybe You have known this person before?  Did You meet seemingly in a synchronised way?

What might really be going on undetected?

There are a few beliefs around this.  Everything from past life recognition to spiritual agreements entered into before manifesting on the physical plane.  The more open and sensitive You are the more You might actually be able to attribute chance meetings and strong connections to something like past life interactions.  That is if You believe in such things.  I wonder if I would believe in it myself if I didn’t get such strong indicators.

Consider it this way, imagine You are a living breathing transmitting mechanism like a radio.  No You do not transmit exactly how a mechanical radio does because You are so much more complex.  You are moving throughout your day and the thoughts, hopes and desires as well as dislikes, discouragement and disillusion (as well as a multitude of other things) are being ‘transmitted’ from your being. Not only are You tuned into what You are transmitting but You are also picking up on what others are transmitting if the transmissions are anywhere similar to yours.

Being sensitive might cause You to pick up on a larger range of electrically emitted signals from things and people.  For example, imagine You set your radio to 93.5FM and it was able to tune into 93.5FM but also the information shared from the range of stations from 83.4FM to 103.5FM.  Talk about a lot of information to sort through.

To simplify, the people You meet that are transmitting on 85.7FM may end up to be great friends or a fabulous business partner, while the ones You meet that transmit around 92.8FM might end up having great potential for a life partner.

Of course this is highly simplified because it is not like we transmit only one type or length of energetic wave and have to have a machine to only pick up the wave length that we want to listen to.  (Mind You, being psychic, I think often that would be handy and it can be said that the power of focus can be such a machine.) 

There are physiological, emotional, and spiritual factors but boiled down they all have their own energetic contribution to the blueprint. All the  factors can be combined differently so that is why we face so very many options everyday when it comes to who we are attracted to and for what reason.

If You are psychically sensitive then You may recognize this happening consciously.  What about when meetings seem totally random?

You may not be aware of what You are picking up energetically but does that mean it is not happening.  It might take longer or You might allow fear to delay meeting the next person you’ve agreed to play with on a spiritual level.  You may feel the need to be somewhere, push the feeling away and miss the opportunity to connect with the love of your life that You have been looking for years.  Or You may learn how to understand the information (energetic transmissions) that You are picking up on and be in the right place at the right time for magic to happen.

Essentially it is my belief that we area all connected psychically and that the amount of resonance we have with one another, determines how we show up in each others lives.

Psychic Potentials is all about You getting tuned in to yourself and to the others around You.  We teach how to understand the info You  pick up on and how to protect yourself from picking up on too much information from others. Heal Yourself audio class is designed for developing your psychic potential for practical use.

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    • Thank You. I recommend doing some training for yourself so that You can recognize the signs and your own internal guidance system signals in regards to this. It is the best way to really know what is happening for You. We have a foundational program that can be done on your own time in home which is a good introduction to the type of training we do.

  1. I have been sensitive in this way since I was a child. Though due largely to a violent upbringing it was always suppressed. Later in life (around 30) I began to have this desire to see Russia. I did not know from where this feeling stemmed but it just seemed overpowering to me. I started looking at pictures of the Russian Countryside and cities and history. Nothing seemed resonate. In one of my searches I ran across a Russian dating website. I’ve never been one to join these types of social media outlets…but for some reason I joined this one. I looked at hundreds upon hundreds of profiles…again nothing! 3 days before my 3 month subscription was up (I had already decided to not renew it) I ran across a profile and BAM! I saw this face and instantly knew I had to contact her. In her profile she was only interested in meeting a Russian man and did not want to travel outside her country. I messaged her. I said “It is a shame that you do not wish to meet anyone that isn’t Russian, I am not Russian…but when I saw your picture I felt like I was home”. We are now married and live in Spain. We have decided that we have been in love/lovers/attached in many previous lifetimes..though we have not done any regressions, we are completely comfortable together. …just thought i’d share that story with you. Thanks!

    • Thank You for this story. No matter how big we think the world is, there is more going on than we can see. I totally enjoy when we are lead to where love is uncovered : ) In Heart Centered Awareness, Judy Lynn

  2. I’m starting to sincerely think that I might have known this guy in a past life. Me and him have had this connection lately where we have followed the same thoughts, did the same thing without knowing it, and knew what each other was going to say before we talked. It’s the weirdest thing. After he told me that he had a dream of us being kids together and playing it made me really believe that we knew each other in a past life.

    • HI Kimber,
      It definitely sounds like you have a strong connection with this man. I would certainly trust your feelings. The ability to communicate in dreams and telepathically is strongest with those we vibrate closely with. Judy Lynn and I have been having lots of conversations lately about twin souls and soul families. Most of the time we have known the important people in our lives in an other life. Enjoy the unfolding in your relationship.

  3. This really helped me! It made a deep amount of understanding. I’m really glad I saw this, it just really helped me in ways k cannot explain. I think everyone has certain psychic connections and to learn more about it and what it really is, is very powerful. It did answer a few of my questions, but I still have one question and maybe someone could help… Do you think that it’s possible to feel connected to someone you’ve never really met, but know a lot about even if they don’t know you. Now say they past on… Do you think they can feel those strong connections or bonds with that person?
    Any thoughts or ideas would be great! X

    • I definitely think it’s possible to feel connection to someone you’ve never met. Twin souls, soul mates and soul family who haven’t met can still feel a strong energy link or feel like they know each other before they’ve become acquainted in the physical realm. Connections with people don’t stop when someone transitions from their body either.

  4. I’ve had a connection with this guy since my teen years. We’ve always been very close and although we’ve lived in different cities and countries, have always kept in touch. He’d take even my casual requests seriously and do what I wanted that he wouldn’t normally for other people and even his mom once commented that she feels we have a past life connection (He’d share things with me that he told me he couldn’t talk about to anybody else). Like once when he was leaving, I said, would be nice if you didn’t have to leave so soon, he called the airline company changed his ticket to a few hours later which cost him quite a bit since it was last minute. All because of my casual statement and just to spend a couple of extra hours (This wasn’t the only time he did this). Anyway, he met someone got married a few years ago and I didn’t keep in touch with him much except to wish him on his birthday. I was too emotionally invested and wanted to be happy for him and move on too. I thought I was truly over him and but a couple of months ago I started getting this feeling that he was in some emotional pain and I tried to shake the feeling away. I hadn’t thought of him in a very long time and couldn’t understand why I was suddenly getting this feeling. The feeling continued and a day or 2 later my feelings told me its his emotional pain was his marriage ending, which he ended. I’ve been trying to shake the feeling telling myself I’m just imagining it and that he is fine but this is just not going away but becoming stronger. I can’t come out and ask him and I can’t make this feeling go away either. Its driving me crazy! I tried meditating upon it (I sometimes do this when something is bothering me and I need to find an answer) and when I meditate I see us in past lives being together and this life too in scenarios that haven’t occurred yet. I am confused whether its my overactive conscious mind or whether its my soul that’s telling me something. Please help me understand.

    • HI Linda,
      It’s not your overactive consciousness. With the increased level of vibration on the Earth, we’ve been able to access our past lives more consciously. He’s part of your soul family which explains your ability to feel what’s going on in his life since we have deep connections with our soul family. You may want to ask him an open ended question about how he’s doing. What you’re picking up on may not be in his now yet. Maybe only thought form or in his possible future. Or just unhappiness in his relationship right now. The tools in our Heal Yourself course may help you pick up things more clearly and separate what it yours and someone else’s.
      In Light,

  5. Thanks Christy. It helps to know that I am not imagining things. I love him very dearly and wish that we could be together. I unconsciously compare the deep understanding he and I shared right from the start with every guy I’ve been out with (just like he said he compared every girl he went out with to me). Sadly, I’ve not that even half of what I have with him with any guy I’ve met. Maybe I’ve run out of soul family members…!

    • You’re welcome. You definitely haven’t run out of soul family. Imagine how much love you’d have in your life being consciously aware of more than one soul mate from your soul family. A complete abundance of love and understanding. :-)

  6. Hi,
    When I came to Australia I knew I was going to meet someone special ,my love, my life. One day i told my friend I want my man to be with me . My heart was racing and moment he spoke to me, I knew it was him , it was the same feeling I had hidden in my heart for years. The more we spoke I realised it was him, I spoke to him so much freely but my bad I told him abt my capabilities and he thought I was mad and left me. My heart still beats for him , I still wait for him , I cant have that feeling for any one I dont know why? Some times I can feel him to miss me and his urge to contact me , I can feel him restless but I want him to come back and communicate first. I went to pschic and she said some one else is made for me but my poor heart dont understand

    • Hi Toral,
      It sounds like You are listening to your intuition. It must be confusing when a psychic is telling You one thing and your heart is telling You another. I recommend listening to your heart first. That being said, if You are relying on another being to complete You ever, You set yourself up for disappointment. To really connect with this man it might benefit You to focus on being grounded in your own energy. When our energy is not grounded due to our thoughts(fears) about another or an intense energy connection, the energy is less attractive and often repelling.
      Your freedom lies in your ability to pay attention to how You feel about another without concern about how they feel about You. So often perceptions get in the way of things turning out better without all the story around it.
      Get grounded, quiet your mind and then ask specific questions of your spiritual guides. Allow the answers to come to You while You stay centered in your body and connected to source. Then You will have a greater chance to move away from confusion and into a place of inspired knowing.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

  7. A couple of weeks ago when i was meditating, I saw my best friend (who’s married) he looked at me and asked why I let go of him (his hand) and pleaded to never do that again even in thought (ive been in love with him for years but mentally let him go once he got married). After that I saw him standing with his wife she was next to him on his right side and I was facing them but in front of him towards his center left. He looked at his hand particularly his ring finger and his wedding band becomes charcoal powder and falls off. He looks at me with a sad expression..I feel sadness that hes going through this.I turned my head to look at his wife and theres a small black hole in her and she looked emotionless. I told myself to make this vision go away – she’s a nice person, make it go away.
    Throughout the meditation, he kept holding my hand and asked me to promise not to let go of him. Do you think u can heIp me understand what this means? Almost 4 months ago I started getting this feeling that he’s calling out to me. I don’t think that he ever knew how I felt about him. I have never had an experience like this. What does this mean?
    I am sensitive and usually know if something’s wrong with those close to me even when they haven’t yet told me but this level of visions and feelings is new and I don’t know if it’s an over active imagination or actual messages from being connected to him. 

    • Hi Lin,

      Our desire causes many things including dreams to allow us greater clarity. We are connected to everyone to some degree. A question that You may need to ask yourself is how much of this dream is what You would like it to be so that You feel free to share how You truly feel. And the next piece is how You can share what You feel honestly with the intention of love and caring. Love expands us and your ability to notice if You feel expanded after such a dream or contracted is a great indicator of whether it serves You to focus on the dream details or to let them and the associated feelings go.

      Your ability to be there for your best friend is important as long as You remember to value yourself and your feelings. Again how You feel in relation to each situation gives You an indicator of whether it is right for You or not. Go with what feels good to You.

      Sometimes dreams allow us time to sort things out mentally and emotionally before they physically manifest as well and if You are sensitive then it might be a great time to start a journal so that You can understand what this dream is sharing with You.

      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

  8. hello,
    this article is amazing, it was just what i was looking for. for almost my whole life i could receive the waves of people thoughts, i could exactly know what people think about me or about each other, their thoughts and feelings even seemed to take a physical or material form that i could even feel over my body!
    now this is what happened with me, i saw him for once, i wasnt attracted to him i even wouldnt know him if i saw him the next day. few weeks later i saw him in my dream, it was too real, suddenly i woke up, i could feel him right next to me in a physycal way, then he left and my heart was burning for his seperation, i was even about to cry his name out. then i suddenly went back to concience and was stunned!!
    month later i couldnt get him out of my head, i looked for his name on some social site, i contact him, we talked as if we knew each other for years, we spell the same idea in the same time, he knows that i miss him, he knows that i wait for him. even though by that time we were at different countries. when i got back home, we contact but i ddnt have the strenghth to meet him. he turned out to live minutes away from my house, i started to see him by coincidences everywhere (though too weak to say hello to him), i can aswear that he reads my mind. he stopped calling me because i never give the chance for us to meet. i forget about him for sometime, till suddenly my heart burns for him like a torture, i feel like he is wearing me, i can only explain it like this. after months we decided to meet, but then he told me i decided not and i dont know why.
    he is not a guy who followed me and then dumped me, i am also not the kind of girls who follow anyone. now i dont know who followed the other. i just know that i need to meet him face to face to find out who is this person that i became obsessed with for no apparent reason, but he ignores me, even though i know and sure and positive that he feels the same about me.
    i dont know why i write this here, but the times when i remember him i cry out of deep pain right deep in my heart. everytime i think of him i suddenly feel huge warm energy, and i feel so sleepy!!!! once i saw him by chance, i actually was told by a hidden voice to stand still and wait, i did, then while i was busy with my mobile the voice came again and told me just look, i did, and itvwas him, in his car, he was driving, but i could feel him looking at me, i could feel that he knew i was there, he wasnt looking at me nor knew that i was there!!!!! the space between us is always becomes more like a liquid!!!!

    i need to know what to do pleaseeeeeeeeeee just pleaaaaaaase this hurts alot :-(((((

    i aswear i am not crazy

  9. Thanks Judylynn. That’s what ive been asking myself. What troubles me is that i was over him and had no desire to be with him until these dreams/visions started a few months ago. Which made me ask, why now? Now all I do is ask my inner voice to shut up so I can get on with my life :-) any suggestions?

    • Dear Lin,

      That the dream caused You to go right back into these feelings might be indicating something not quite released. It might be possible that it is for a reason. Do You feel that You can share the details of this dream with your friend? If it were me I might look for a way to share in a way that my friends wife get her health checked.

      Accepting ‘now’ is the exact right timing and that your feelings are the exact right feelings is one of the best places to start I think. I have come to believe that feelings are not to be eliminated, just transformed, much like the apple blossom and the tree. How can You use the energy of the emotion (energy in motion) to serve You. Try imagining the caring You feel for your friend as a color that fills and surrounds him in a bubble and then while imaging that, replace him with yourself, placing yourself in the bubble of caring color. Redirect the love You feel towards yourself.

      By doing this You can take the energy and use it to benefit You, You will attract an individual to You that is capable of loving You to the degree You can love You and You will have the energy to handle anything that comes up in your friendship and surrounding situations. We may not always receive the what, how, or why but we can always know that assistance will be given if we ask and then open ourselves to receiving!
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

      • This is really beautiful. Thank you for sharing. I came across your page because I am really trying to understand an energy connection I have right now – and everything you are all saying is resonating so well. Thank you for your clarity!!!

  10. hello again :-)
    by that time i was still a lost soul, i needed to get my self all together more than anything, and my feelings for him were very intense and i couldnt know and still dont know what kind of feelings they were (i dont want to know though, i enjoy them anyway!) but i was just not ready. now i want to meet him, i need to face that soul who came to me, and took all my attention. but now he is not responding to me, we talk from time to time, and everytime we talk i could feel huge energy, i could feel that he has intimate feelings for me, but then its like if he regrets to show them, maybe he is afraid to be weak, i dont blame him since i acted like stupid before. now everytime i forget him totally for a bit of time, i suddenly remember him very bad and feel him around me, but when i try tp contact him he refuses to respond!! i really wonder, when i remember him is it because he is thinking about me? how can i be sure? also, sometimes i just feel like i need to think of all places that he could be at and go to see him. i really dnt know what is it about him. maybe we can meet someday also by coincidence. do i love him, i dont think this the love we all know, but i need to contact him all the time. he is very stubborn. what to do? :-((

    • Hi fairy,

      What I get is that You think You have lost your chance at connecting with this person and that this person, without You fully understanding why, is extremely important to You. Is this correct? You may be right about it being a kind of love that not everyone knows. As the vibrational shifts continue much refining is happening and chances are the way we see love will change as well. It is my understanding that twin soul love is happening and being recognized way more than it has before here on this planet.

      If You are serious about attracting a twin soul love then it is important that You focus on how You can love unconditionally, how You can balance your emotional body and how You can get in as much alignment with the spirit of You as possible while still maintaining your physical body. Try connecting at a deeper level, spirit of You, to spirit of your twin and then see what manifests in physical from there. The twin soul energy is intense and it is my understanding that this intensity can only really be handled when You can come from and emotionally fit place.

      To release the fear around it so that You are attracting instead of resisting because when You are ready the universe is still ready to help deliver your desires!
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

  11. Dear Judylynn & Christy

    I have had the most peculiar experience lately & it is truly bothering me as I have no idea or any clue on how to deal with it.

    I am a highly sensitive spiritually with very strong intuitive feelings & dreams! I most often dream of the future or something that is about to happen & the next day it happens exactly like that or with a twist.
    I also tend to have very accurate (sometimes vivid, sometimes hazy vision) during my wake/sleep periods & 99% of the time they are so realistic & high in energy field that I get goose bumps from them.
    I am happily married & have children. I love my family. They rely on me & they have firm belief in my dreams & visions & my sixth sense as they know none of them are incorrect.
    I have met many people in my life & most often I feel their energy field, even those people that I meet online for business interaction. I have this immediate intuitive feeling of trust or untrust as soon as I meet someone~ but with some people I feel their energy fields so strongly especially my family members!
    I have many acquaintances, however I rarely feel the need/ or this strong urge to connect to them on any level more than normal.

    However, about 10 months ago, I was waiting for some business deliveries & this gentleman with completely covered face (due to extreme cold weather) shows up at my office!
    I do not see anything of him but his eyes… I can not even say if he is old or young. He brings the parcels & hands them to me after a very short greeting! I was very thankful & immediately due to my maternal instincts I tell him to be careful using the slippery steps leading outside! He thanks me gratefully & leaves!

    A few days later he shows up again & I open the office door quite by accident to actually see his face now as he had no covers ! he looks at me in a way & gives me the biggest smile like he’s known me forever! & I feel this huge feeling of happiness, trust, loving bubbling feeling upon meeting him! it;s like I have known him forever & ever… & he acts like he’s been waiting for this moment. So warm, so friendly, so caring!

    & then this goes on…. nothing inappropriate…. just his deliveries & his becoming friendlier & friendlier with me!
    It’s like upon seeing him I get this boosting energy radiating in my body, yet I feel his energy field so close & so strongly that at times it scares me to death…

    Then I get to see him in some & some dreams only!& the dreams are strangely close to reality & they most often happen in a distorted way with a twist… like a conversation that I see happens b/w the two of us in my dream & it actually happens but in a twisted way in reality.

    He is highly respectful & I do strongly feel that a month after his deliveries he was about to ask me out but I intuitively said something about my child & he changed his conversation to something else totally.

    I told my family about this kind delivery person, my spouse thought he had a crush on me & I feel that he tries to steer me away from this man as much as possible! My child thinks that he is being kind to me b/c I am kind & respectful of him due to his effort for delivering my items on time.

    He seems to be wanting to make me happy at all times! It is very important that he delivers my items on a timely manner & he makes sure I get them on time!

    I seem to feel extremely close this person, nothing indiscreet but it is like I can pick up his vibes! I miss him at times & I feel his energy around me even when he is not …
    I do not know anything about this person, as our conversations are just business, but the way he connects with me or looks at me or the way he stares into my eyes & waits to make sure I get all my items & I am happy really confuses me! I feel so strongly 99% of the time that he wants to tell me something but he won’t as he knows I have family & I love them.

    I feel very confused & guilty at times thinking about this person. Could this all be my overactive imagination or is there something going on here? Please advise

    • Hi Meg,
      My first impression is that you two vibrate love and light and recognize that in each other. Like you both act as Earth angels. Perhaps if things were different in your life, he could be someone for you to develop a relationship with. As things are, I would just appreciate his bright and loving energy, as I’m sure he appreciates yours.

      Another thing comes to mind… there are tools for running your own energy, cord cutting, protection roses and grounding yourself that may help you. You want to make sure that you’re not keeping a connection with him, or him with you, that takes away from you being present in your own life. If you aren’t using any techniques already, you could check out our Heal Yourself home study course.

      IN light,

    • I’ve known a person since i was a teenager that i could talk to about anything for hours and hours. He has a strange energy that I can feel. I once had my head down and couldn’t see him but could feel his presence when he walked into the room. I’ve never felt that way about anyone else. He moved to another state but I still have dreams about him. Sometimes I think he is talking to me inside of my head and I can feel his presence all around me. It feels like heat. i can feel my hands warm up like he’s holding them and it is very intense. I’m afraid that I might be crazy and haven’t told anyone about this. He asked for my phone # a few days ago because we haven’t talked in yrs. but he hasn’t called yet he keeps making excuses and i think he’s afraid to call me. I told him i loved him about 13 yrs ago and he said he wasn’t good at relationships and that he didn’t want to ruin the friendship but I had to end the friendship because it was too painful to see him with other women. I did a tarot reading to ask if he was interested in me and how his relationship was with another woman. It said it was bad and the next day it showed that he was single on Facebook. I keep feeling like he’s the one for me. Should I stay away from this person?

      • Hi Abbie,
        It sounds like you have quite the connection with him. It also appears you are very in tune with your intutitive abilities. I would trust your own guidance as to whether it serves you to avoid him or not. Have you asked your cards? Judy and I are here to support you further and more indepth in our psychic readings. We have an inexpensive email reading you may be interested in to get further confirmation. Click here to check out our reading offerings.
        In light!

  12. Hey,
    I have a few questions… sorta… when i was younger, like 3-5 years old, i would wake up in the morning an felt like someone was standing by my bed looking down at me. I got a negative vibe from the area where the vibes came from and was always scared of it. Later i moved to a new house and every house i moved to there was a weird vibe for the first few months at least. I’m just wondering what that might be since I’m not sure. I read the article about the twin souls and this article and was wondering if you have a soul twin that is on the physical as well could you feel their emotions? I ask since my friend that i consider to be my sister, i can pick up on her emotions and i think she can pick upon mine. I can also pick up on other people’s emotions if i am friends with them and we are in the same room…

    • Hi Jesi,

      It is my understanding that we are able to connect with individuals in physical and non physical on the spiritual plane. When You are sensitive there is less of a barrier between these dimensions and if this energy is from a twin soul it can feel uncomfortable as the twin soul energy is very intense. It sounds like You might be served by clearing, grounding and knowing how to energetically support yourself on a deeper level. These things will allow You greater clarity around who You are picking up on and why. This is one of the reasons Christy and I started this business is so that we could provide You with the tools and understanding to feel confident with this beautiful opportunity to connect more fully on all levels with the individual’s in your life.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

  13. Thank you Christy, I appreciate the insightful help & suggestions!
    I do meditate & pray daily & ask my guardian angel(s) to provide me with the answers & guide me in the right direction. I am trying my best to avoid any further contact that might cause unwanted issues! However, most of the times I feel that an extraordinary force pulls us together!!!! Even if I do not meet this person for my business purposes & when I put him completely out of my mind, yet I will run to him face to face at the most unexpected times & sometimes places! & even a small conversation sparks & makes me think for days! I feel very blessed to know such a wonderful person, yet what his purpose is in my life that is the question that most puzzles me!!

    • Hi Meg,
      You’re welcome. I’m glad to hear you’re asking for insight from your angels. If you’re looking for insight into his purpose in your life and aren’t getting clear answers for yourself, you may want to consider a Double Psychic Reading from Judy and myself. We could go further in depth with you in our introductory or full readings over the phone, or in the 1 question email reading.

      Any relationship sparks you to be the fullest You possible if You allow it to.
      In Light,

  14. I dreamt of a person I do not know nor have had a conversation about. I told my friend, of whom I have only known for 6 months..
    he said he knew that person as I descibed his appearance from my dream. Down to the color of his eyes, as they were red, same hair, and a language I did not understand, my friend says he is Russian.
    I am very interested as to how this person was in my dream.

    • Hi Annabella,

      Thank You for sharing here. When Christy and I do readings for people this comes up often. Our understanding is that our physical presence is quite small compared to our spiritual presence and that so very much happens on the spiritual and energetic planes that we do not even realize. Much of this happens to support and encourage our experiences here physically. We are finding that many people are working out and releasing their resistances, creating connections and just generally having fun with others in/on this dream/spiritual plane. You might benefit from keeping a dream journal by your bed at night and intending that You wake to write the pieces from your dreams that are important for You to know in waking state. With enough journalling often the reasons, messages and ways to connect physically come clear.

      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

  15. Thank you Christy,
    I appreciate it. He’s been transferred, the last time I saw him coincidentally when shopping & he was so upset about being transferred to another place for work. I have not seen him since then, but I feel these horrible attacks at times when he comes to my mind. I do not know why is that? I am a very strong person emotionally but when it comes to this person I feel like I am picking up his energy level! It scares me, as I have NEVER felt like this before. It is like he is in my mind 24/7 & at certain times of the day I feel this panic attack tightening feeling in my chest that feels like exploding? Am I going crazy? Could I be picking his energy levels although I have not seen him for 3-4 weeks now? Please help! I am SO confused!

    • Hi Meg,
      Yes, You can be picking up on someone’s energy even if You haven’t seen them in weeks. One of the reasons Judy Lynn and I created Heal Yourself was to help people who psychically pick up on others energy. So You can more effectively use your abilities. Have you been using any tools to clear your energy? It is important to take steps for yourself so you feel comfortable in your own energetic space.
      In heart centered awareness,

  16. JudyLynn and Christy,

    Please help? My bestfriend claims that she knows her past life and that she is psychic. I met her in first year high school, and the school we were going to was only a high school. I knew no one on a personal basis when I enrolled. I believed her claims when she told me a few things I liked that I never let anyone in our school know before like the type of bracelet I prefer, the style of dress I prefer, my “perfect way to end a date”, my fear of heights (she said it was because of falling from a wall, and truthfully, there was a stage in my life when I would dream of falling off fro somewhere twice in a night, a few times a month. I didn’t tell her first, she told me the fact first) random stuff that she surprises me with. We became bestfriends then. Near the end of the school year, she started telling me about her past life, and that I was there as well, as her younger, childish sister. At first I doubted it, and this continued until early the next school year. I had a few dreams and when I told her, she would recognize the scenes. When she dreamed of a certain person one night, she told me, and I was surprised because the same night she dreamed of that person, I dreamed about him too. Also, I remembered a particularly long dream from my elementary days that fits the events in her story. Unfortunately, she couldn’t connect to my mind like she does to others. She said this was because of a ‘block’ that I recently caused when I felt hurt by people I trusted. Right now, she claims to remember another past life with a very different story. I don’t think she is lying because she hold onto her beliefs so strongly. I think this is just my insecurity, but do you think that her claims are real?
    BTW she said when she first saw me, she instantly recognized me. Meanwhile, I felt a sense of security in her from the very beginning. I don’t usually trust people because I was bullied as a child. Also, my list of “I wish I could do this” when I was a child (I had never done those things in the list before but I felt like I knew what I was doing when I tried) was the skills and activities my past life used to do. I didn’t tell her this until recently.

    • Hi Raielle,
      Why wouldn’t her claims be true? You seem to be able to collaborate some of them yourself. Some people have more past life memory than others. Sounds like you’re coming up to a point where You trust or not. I’d suggest centering in yourself and your deepest heart to connect to what is true for you. There are many books on the subject of reincarnation. “Many Lives Many Masters” by Brian Weiss. My friend Jason Piper, remembers is past lives and wrote a book called “Back to Suburbia”.
      I personally believe that past live memories can serve us in our growth and expansion in our current incarnation. I also believe that as we raise our vibration in ourselves and on the planet we move past the dualistic patterns of karma. We come to a place of oneness in love and understanding. This idea is touched on in the book Judy Lynn and I wrote, “When the Door Opens“.
      Wishing you peace and understanding in all of your relationships.
      In light,

  17. Hi.I have been reading some of these articles and I really feel I can relate. The only thing is that sence I have met this guy from this other country I cant stop thinking about him.

    About two years back we had this online romance. We would talk 3-4 times a day. ( I feel like when I look at his pictures exp this one he has I feel like i can some how touch him .. It is almsot like i can touch every inch of him. )

    I am more than sure I had a past life with this guy at some point. I just do not know how to move on.

    • Hi Sarah,
      I appreciate your question, especially these days when we area being asked to transcend our beliefs about relating with others to a new level. There is a lot of magnetic draw between individuals on a spiritual level that does not always make physical sense. I believe always it is about You expanding and experiencing yourself in the most authentic way that You can. Using this draw to another to remind You to more fully connect with the spirit of You. Here are a couple more articles if You haven’t already read them and I encourage You to breath every time You think of this guy. Allow your self and your Self to be more in alignment so that You can be confident in what is next to do!
      What is a Twin Soul and What are You to do With Them?
      5 things to do When You REcognize a Soul Mate
      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

  18. Thanks for your help. I have one more question. Is it possible that a lot of people in a group have related past lives? There are around ten of us who know each other. Three or four of us are aware.

    • Hi Raielle,
      You are welcome, very. If we are to understand that we have immediate soul families then You could be picking up on the very close vibrational resonance that happens within the soul group and often individuals in the soul group do have many past lives together as well. There are differences between past life recognition, soul family recognition, twin soul connection and yet the differences can be pretty subtle. Congratulations in finding so many persons that You recognize this connection with! Life seems more fun somehow from my experience with soul family interaction.

      In Heart Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

  19. Hi there,

    I started meditating 3 1/2 months ago. I was trying to find inner peace and comfort in myself. 2-3 weeks into it I started to feel odd. More specifically I felt unhappy with how my life was and incomplete. And, I felt I was on the wrong path. I had always wanted to move back to Australia. But I felt a strong urge to move to Melbourne in Australia early next year. I cant explain why. I have never been there.. But, I feel like something is calling me there. When I continued to meditate I started to see images of this man. I have never met him before. But, for some reason we knew each other. And, we were romantically involved. To me that seemed crazy. So, I pushed it away. But, every time now I see him and I know his name starts with M. I would find peace with him I felt like our souls merged. Then, I started to see images/signs that were reminders of him. I would see his face and his smile. I even learnt that his name is Matthew. Even weirder I think he lives in Melbourne. When I was looking at images of scenery in Melbourne just to see If I’d feel anything. There was a few photos of park, walkway and a restaurant café that feel familiar to me. Like I have been there with him. Or, maybe I am going to be there with him. I’m not sure. The images/visions got so strong that I could actually feel his essence, his touch. And, even hear his voice. It was always when I was awake and mostly when I was doing my day to day routine. It started to freak me out so I kind of stopped meditating for a short time. When I researched more into it it came up with twin flame and past life. I thought it was possibly someone I had known in a past life. But, after deep meditation I feel it’s more than that. Like he may be my twin flame. I even went to a psychic for general things and she brought up that I will meet a man overseas and that he’s the one I will spend the rest of my life with. When she described his features, etc I felt something light up inside me. And, a voice go off in my head saying “yes, that’s matthew. The guy I’ve been seeing.” To be honest I don’t know what to think. But, all I know is that when I try talk to friends they don’t know how to take what I’m saying. So, I decided to keep it to myself. I even sketched his face and wrote some details about him. Any advice would be great….thanks

  20. Hi, I’ve met a person this quarter of school in class. When I first saw the person I was like “woah he is something special” on a subconscious level of course. It was driving me crazy and I knew I had to get to know him. When I look at him or think about him, it’s a strange feeling of familiarity. I’ve tried telling a friend that it’s not like a normal crush when I told them how I felt about this person. I couldn’t describe it it’s like more than a crush, but less than love since we are not together (yet) but after having read this article, I seriously think he and I have known each other in a past life

    • Hi Whovie,
      Perhaps you have known this person in another life. Perhaps your energy vibration is similar. Perhaps you are part of the same soul family. Always trust your inner feelings and guidance.
      Bright Blessings to you!

  21. Okay, let me just say that what I’m about to say makes me sound crazy, but I swear it’s all true. I was a late bloomer with boys, and didn’t have my first boyfriend til I was 18 years old. The boy in question I had felt a strong connection to ever since the first time I saw him (and I was interested in no one else at school) But this was when I was about 13, so it was a full five years before I ever dated him. In that time, my parents divorced and I moved with my Mom out of state for a few years, finally going back home at around 15 almost 16. When I started back at my old school i was as awkward as ever, and no one really knew I liked this boy (except for my best, and only friend) He never suspected a thing. Then finally I got sick and was in the hospital for over a month. When I came out, and went back to school, this boy suddenly loved me. He asked would talk to me all the time, follow me around the school, and find excuses for me to need to drive him home. I was flattered, but shy and uncomfortable with all the attention. However, we did end up dating for a the last three months of school. But just like most kids, when graduation happpend, a few weeks later, we parted ways. He went to Texas, and I to Florida for school. I didn’t speak to him after he left, but many months later, after no contact, I had a dream of him, and about 2 days later, a phone call. This happened repeatedly for over a year. Then suddenly, the calls stopped altogether (I would later learn this boy was in a commited relationship with 2 kids) Now, fast forward a few years, and I’m married and have not thought of this guy in ages. In fact, its a few months before our 10 year class reunion. And I have a dream with him in it, and just like before, out of nowhere, out of years of no contact, he messeges me online and wants my number so he can call. We talked for a while on the phone, no big deal, and I hear he’s having problems with his long term girlfriend. Many months later, after no dreams I’ve learned he’s married a lovely girl. But the dreams don’t end there for me. I have a very good friend who is not from my country, and I don’t get to speak to him as often as I would like. We go several months without speaking. Just before Valentines Day last year (it might have been Valentines Night acutally) I have a dream with him in it…and I remember feeling very upset for him. I get online the next day and he is there, though I’ve not heard from him in months since he’s been happy with his girlfriend at that time. He tells me that he proposed to this girl and she refused. I told him I had a feeling something was wrong and thats why I looked to see if he was online. Recently I’ve had a dream about this same man, after not speaking to him for months and he tells me the same thing…he and his current girlfriend are having problems. I don’t know why this keeps happening to me, but it sort of freaks me out. Why does my mind do this sort of thing???

    • Hi Christina,

      I would be the last one to say anything about crazy. It sounds like your life is flowing along and that your desires are being listened to and delivered on by the universe. We talk a lot about expanding awareness and being able to ‘know’ what it serves us to know. I wonder what You might do with all this knowing if You were to accept that what is happening is normal for You? Always the answers come to You out of the questions You are asking whether You are conscious to the questions or not. I suggest focusing on being grounded when these things happen by just focusing on your breath, taking deep full breaths and You will know what to do with the situation better.

      In Heart Centered Awareness,

  22. Hi Judy,
    I was wondering if you could answer some questions that have been burning a hole inside my head. I have been dreaming about this man for more than 15 times the past year. I do not know him personally. We have never gone beyond hi, hello, how are u? The moment I saw him from pictures his brother showed me I had this weird feeling of knowing him from somewhere. The first dream I ever had of him came out of the blue. I was clearly not thinking about him as I was in a relationship that time. But try as I had, I could never dream of the man I was with. Almost as if my subconscious was rejecting him. In these dreams he is always taking care of me. Holding my hand, telling jokes to make me smile,, helping me make hard decisions, sleeping beside me. I know his scent, his touch, his eyes, his voice, his aura. When I broke up with my boyfriend I was utterly confused and devastated. Then I suddenly thought of this man and I cried my self to sleep. Surely enough he was in my dream comforting me. And the next day he messaged me asking how I was doing. The dreams continued. Last Saturday, I dreamed about him again. He was sick and delirious. I could literally feel his pain as I rushed to his side and took care of him. Then he kissed me and he disappeared. I couldn’t find him. I looked for him everywhere shouting and crying for his name. The pain and confusion seemed so real. Two nights later, he was in my dream again. Although I couldn’t see his face, I could feel him there. I couldn’t remember much from that dream save for this masculine voice saying, “Your souls are intertwined”.
    This is driving me crazy. I am beginning to think he is the man I have been writing about in my stories since I was 14. In the story I write about a man that moves at the speed of light that nothing can be seen but a distinct red glow like a sunset/sunrise. I named him R. This man of my dreams name means Red and Sun in Sanskrit and he looks exactly like how I envisioned the character. Maybe I am just making up these coincidences or maybe not. There are many more similarities in our families and personal lives (as his brother once told me). I really don’t know how he ends up in my dreams… Can you tell me what’s happening? And I have no contact with him whatsoever. He has gone back to India, which, coincidentally, is a country I have always wanted to visit since I was like 7 years old. As though something is summoning me. everytime I think of him I would get this ripping sensation in my chest. Am I crazy or what?
    This ended up longer than I planned. But I would really appreciate it if you could tell me anything. Or at least rule out insanity. Thanks.

    In love and light
    P.S this man’s last name means lion in Sanskrit. My family name is Leon, Spanish for lion. If that helps. I believe there’s something in names that affects people’s energies.

    • Hi Mara,
      Thank You for sharing here. We are hearing from many about recognition of immediate soul family and twin soul connection. It is my understanding that these recognitions help to propel us forward in raising our own personal vibration to more closely match the shifting vibration of our planet as a whole. The challenge is to see these relationships as mirrors to our own souls versus having an idea of what they should look like in our physical lives.
      I sense that You are being reminded of the connection that we share with everyone on some level. The connection resonates more closely with immediate soul family and most closely with twin souls. I have most clearly experienced this deeply moving connection as ‘coming home’ and been rendered speechless at times. Not all these encounters have been on a physical level. As we have these beautiful filters called egos that allow us to slow down divine energy enough to experience via a physical body, sometimes it can seem like non physical is less real than our physical experience. It is beneficial to accept both and find ways to integrate where You can with integrity. Might want to check out another article I wrote on the site here about twin souls. You deserve to be uplifted by the connections You recognize!
      In Heart Centered Awareness,

  23. I was in desperate straits with my feelings and I stumbled upon this. I am not one for believing in anything like this, but my Auntie is, so she told me to look up ”past lives” is i decided to and I think I know what’s wrong with me now! For the past year I have had strong feelings for a man who is not my partner. The first time this man (Joe) and I met, we just stared at each other until I got embarrassed and looked away and he was still staring. We have since talked a lot him and me, and found we have lots in common. He looks at me with such …fondness and some sadness in his eyes, and yet I don’t know if this is because he fancies me. This seems like something else to me. It feels different, its not lust. It is not lust for me either. I have had guys lust after me and its not like this. He doesn’t live in the same town as me, he lives somewhere I have never been, yet when i saw a picture of the place, I knew it like I had been there before. All his friends have been very sweet to me too, which baffles me as they don’t really know me that well. I knew what his middle name was before I even asked it, and I knew lots more too. I don’t know how to handle this, I love my fiance, but something keeps pulling me so close to this man….Could he be my husband or lover from a past life?

    • Hi Lisa,
      Yes, you definitely could have known him in a past life. You may be from the same soul family or even twin souls. Click here to read an article about twin souls and see if it resonates with You. Twin souls always respect the agreements and commitments we have with others.

      If you’d like Judy and I too look into this more deeply for You, please check out our readings page. We have a 1 Question Reading You may be interested in.

      In heart centered awareness,

  24. Hello,
    10 years ago, I dated a warm human being, who loved me unconditionally. But as i was just recoverring from another heartbreak, I never could love him as much and after nearly 2 years, I left him. Its 8 years now. I never saw him again and I never missed him or thought of him much. We both are married and I even have a daughternow. Suddenly last month, out of the blue, I started thinking of him soo much and i miss him soo much. I have been crying, feeling guilty over the way I treated him and wanted to be back with him. I even mailed him, but he said he has forgotten me. Why has this happened? Like I said, I never gave much thought to him all these years. Why soo much of pain now?

    • Hi San,
      Perhaps you are doing a life review of sorts. Connecting with the way you treated others. He gave you a good example of how you treated someone in your less than ideal way. I like to call on Archangel Jeremiel for reviewing my life.

      Perhaps you have a soul level connection with him as well. As for the pain, if we accept that everything happened exactly as it did in divine perfect order, then we release the idea of it should have happned differently. We understand we did the best we could and so did everyone else. There is nothing to forgive. Only love and acceptance.
      In heart centered awareness,

      • Thanks Christy,
        That was very soothing. I suppose everything happenedd the way it had to happen. I just find it difficult to accept that I was so blind to him that time and rejected that pure love and hurt him so badly. I realized it a bit too late. I suppose now he is with someone better and is happier and it worked out well for him. I too am in a brink of completing my studies which I resumed lately and its going to change my career and life.

        Yeah, I love him as of today and I miss him. But I am also happy that he has found his true love and happiness. I also appreciate the kindness I receive around me and my husband’s love. I have learnt not to take love for granted.

        I am going to look up to Archangel Jeremiel for help to heal my self inflicted wounds.

        Thanks a lot.

  25. I feel very weird explaining my current situation because it is quite new to me but the feelings are rather intense, and I hope I don’t come off sounding like a total whack job. But, I wanted some advice on a spiritual level.
    In the past month I began listening to the music of Gram Parsons and his voice and words touched me right in the heart. I have listened to great music before that I have really loved, but this is the first time that I can remember where I have felt the emotion so strongly and felt such an intense connection. It makes it more heart wrenching when I think about the fact that he died so young at 26 because of addiction, so many years before I was born.
    I was born with a heart condition and without going into oh so much detail that it entails, I will just say a few points. Because of my heart condition, I pass out, and when I did, I would have seizures because my heart would stop beating. I finally had a pacemaker implanted when I was 11. I am now 27 and am on my fourth pacemaker. I have gone through so much medical crap that I have a different outlook on life and have always felt that I could have died at any time when I was younger but I am still here, and I have to believe I am here for a reason. Recently my life has felt like I was in a sort of limbo, not knowing what to do or how to do it because I am not where I want to be. I feel like now that I discovered Gram and his music, that “he” is pushing me to get off my ass and really go for my dreams and live this life that was given to me, through all the obstacles I have overcome. I want to leave an amazing legacy like he did and so I feel like he is pushing me to do it.
    Is that some kind of spiritual connection or is it just me wishing something to be? I only ask because it is something so intense and different that I don’t really understand it. Sorry if this sounds like a lot of rambling, but I am just trying to get it all out. Thank you so much for any help you can give.

    • Hi Jessica,
      Yes it certainly sounds like you have a spiritual connection with Gram. Once we return to non-physical we express ourselves in areas that were of interest to us while we were in the physical. Gram would certainly be able to having a living connection with you through his music. Especially since you resonate with his music so strongly.

      Please feel free to check out the readings page for an introductory reading or 1 Question email reading if You would like in depth insight about your life direction.

      Yes, You are still here for a reason. I do believe that we choose from a soul level when to die. I’m sure you have passed up more than one opportunity to leave the physical.

      Wishing you all the best in expressing your passions in this life!

      • Thank you, Christy. It helps me feel better to know that I am not alone and that there are things in this world beyond what we can see and fully explain. I need to become more spiritual to help with daily stresses.
        I just didn’t know if it was possible to have a spiritual connection with someone you never met and who died years before you were born. I just know there is some special “connection” or something going on because I hear his voice singing and I get teary eyed. It is so bizarre to me, so I feel like it has to mean something more.

        • Hi Jessica,

          Can You imagine how beautiful and bright life can be when You give more meaning to the things around You. One of the main reasons Christy and I started Psychic Potentials is to assist others in understanding the language of spirit that is all around us all the time. I encourage You to pay attention to where and what You feel in your body when You are listen to the music and the words at same time. Messages come in all manner of ways to us, when we listen.
          In Heart Centered Awareness,

          • Both of you ladies are amazing and really helped me to open up more to the spiritual side of myself. I will definitely pay more attention to the words and feelings with the music.
            Thank you so much!

  26. I never had an experience as I have had with Al. The first time I saw him I was so overwhelmed with his presence I couldn’t see straight, I walked int a wall, and he chuckled. I am a generally cautious person when it comes dating men and relationships in general, however this instantaneous combustion that I experienced made me even more so. The experiences continued with very little dialogue on our parts. I had dreams of us having sex that were so real I wasn’t sure whether I was dreaming or awake. Another psychic occurrence happened when I ran into him and I had the impression that fireworks were going off all around us. Simultaneously, I saw slightly doubled over.The relationship didn’t go far. However, after a period of not having seen him for a month I was so depressed coming out the metro I suddenly had this intense feeling that Al was right there, and there he was crossing the street. I tried to meet him at a club one time, and the experience was not materially significant but psychically so. I felt his presence before he entered into the club, he presence was so intense. I think it also to do with the fact that he is a Taurus and I am leo, he felt like animal. Or a final example is I think I gave him the equivalent of a psychic slap when I was really mad at him, I could see myself pulling for some kind of chord and released it hard in order to give him a slap. Or another time when we tried to communicate with each other and i just blew up on because of my frustration. I came back and extended myself to him and it felt like I was giving him a back rub. I was so fumbling in this relationship. I don’t know what the purpose of this relationship was..If I wasn’t ready why did it happen and who was he to me?

    • Hi Anita,
      Thank You for sharing here. You bring up a very important piece that Christy and I share with many that we do readings for…that relationships happen on a spiritual level before, during and after they are played out physically. We live in a time where relationships are showing up for the purpose for our personal and spiritual growth like maybe never before. You and he have touched one another and asked something of one another. In your process it will serve for You to recognize that everything that happened int he is relationship was for You. So that You could bring to the surface that in You that was ready to be healed, released and shared. If we are meant to be or not to be ‘with’ someone there can be a catalyzing effect with coming into contact and connection. Your ability to take what You have learned about yourself and bring yourself to a new level of acceptance and happiness will make it all worth it and make room for the ‘ready’ You talk about here.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,

  27. I had a girl in my class, I saw her in the second semester when I say saw it was I paid attention. Until then I never thought about any relationship when I saw her I thought how did I miss her till now even though we were in same class. I don’t know if I can say my childhood was rough but that only resulted in me not wanting to be in any relationship. But I was ready to enter into any relationship with this girl. Having her around was like being close to another part of me. I know it sounds strange but yes I believe I’m in parts. I thought when I get a job I’ll try to persuade her and the biggest question I wanted to ask was if she felt the magic that I feel when she is around things were never beautiful.

    But looks like she didn’t she hardly returned any of my calls and via FB I came to know about her marriage, I was depressed that’s not the only factor which contributed to that tough, I’m jobless since almost 1 and half year I quit a good paying job. Not sure if I get anyone soon.. even later. I can’t still stop thinking about her.. I somehow still feel connected to me…

    • Hello Soull12,

      It sounds like it is time for You to find some support. When You are sensitive, life can get pretty overwhelming. I believe that we are of much more influence than most people in my experience accept. That the influence we have starts with us and how disciplined we choose to be about what we think and how we feel. I once had a friend tell me that I had to value myself enough to be selfish in my thinking, choosing the thoughts that made me feel good. It makes a difference.
      Sometimes we connect with Soul Mates, the individuals that it feels like we have known before and brighten up our lives, in order to remind us that in order for things to go well around us we need to get right ‘in’side ourselves. They give us a glimpse of what it could be and they move on because that is what they agreed to do. I hope You can allow yourself to see options when it comes to being connected to a soul mate as our man made ideas around romantic life partners and soul mates can set us up for a ton of disappointment.
      I trust that when You are ready You will adjust what You focus on and things around You will adjust along side You.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,

      • hmmm thanks for that. Yes you are right but I never believed in romance that man made. I hope I’ll meet someone with whom I can feel so connected.

  28. Hello- I feel like I recognized my soul twin 2 years ago. He came into my radar at the gym, where and when I was feeling at my lowest and I was really trying to hard to get in shape and get healthy. I had major post-pardum depression and was not happy about how my life was going.
    When he came into my view, I feel like I was energized and I was so happy to see him. Our interaction since than has been a hypnotizing, magnetic interaction. We both are not shy about our eye-contact and its very intense. He makes every effort to be near me and I feel so strongly for him. He makes my heart flutter. I feel wrong for this, because I am married and have two children. But I also feel frustrated because I feel so strongly about him and I cant do anything about it! We have common friends, I know because he comes up as a mutual friend on FB but I have not friended him…but I am sure if I were to contact him he would know who I am.
    I think of him everyday, I also feel like he thinks of me…I feel waves of warm, fuzzy energy at times and he makes me happy when I see him periodically.
    I want to cut ties with him, I am miserable not having him in my life and want to live in the moment but I am also grateful that he came into my path, because I feel like he woke me up and gave me the right type of attention to feel beautiful and confident…even when I didnt feel it.
    How do I forget about him? I cant love him in this life time, I am committed and so is he. It’s a sad situation…

    • Hi Mon,

      It took me awhile to respond to your comment as I can only respond from my perspective on this one as the concepts are greater than I know how to verbalize. I spend time talking to my non physical guides about the twin soul understandings and constructs that are part of our environment more each day.
      Do You have a belief that says You can not love more than one individual at a time? That being married shuts down your feelings for others.
      It is our ability to make choices that gives us freedom. For You to recognize this individual so clearly has obviously caused You both pleasure and pain. I wonder what would happen if You were to recognize that it was your thoughts about You, reflected from an other, that caused You to feel right in yourself and worked forward from there.
      I have heard that there are many sets of twin souls that choose to work and connect on the spiritual planes while accepting and honoring their man made commitments and choices.
      Your ability to choose the thoughts and adjust your perceptions takes discipline and a desire to know one self more deeply.
      I believe that twin souls are showing up to one another more as catalysts to encourage personal soul remembering. Some of the showing up is meant to bring the two together reflecting the returning recognition and valuing of masculine and feminine with in each being. Some of the showing up is to motivate an awakening and remembrance that indeed You are a spiritual soul choosing to be in a physical body in a physical way.
      I encourage You to get quiet within yourself and listen for what is right for You because only You can know that.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,

      • Hi Judy
        Thank you for your time to reply. I truly believe that we exchanged energy and since our recognition two years ago, I have been a better, stronger and energized person. I feel more connected spiritually and I feel unstoppable. I understand our work together spiritually, and I accept that. My heart aches to see him and to be with him in person, but I have to trust and let time heal the longing. I dont necessarly have a belief system (religion) that tells me that I cant love more than one person, its the social boundries of being a good wife and mother that does not allow for me to accept this energy from my twin soul. I accept that its my own soul that I should nurture and its a work in progress…but there still not a day that goes by and he is on my mind…like he is saying hello to me all the time. It drives me nuts. :)

        • I appreciate that. I have worked with some individuals that recognize their twin souls on the spiritual plane, not incarnated. Sometimes think that might be easier to work it out on the physical.

          Do You know what You agreed to on a soul level for this lifetime for You and with your twin soul?

          In Heart Centered Awareness,

          • Hi Judy,
            I recognized him and it led to me research and confirming that he is my twin soul. I feel it in my gut, with not doubt. He comes in my dreams and I feel a constant, almost telepathic connection to him. Its very mixed signals from him. I am sure he is not as awake or enlightened as I am. I rejected the whole concept and the feelings I was having…but then I just let them come to me and I am enjoying the waves of love that is sent to me periodically.
            I have yet to pin point our agreement. His arrival, or his “appointment” with me came at times very appropriate for my ascension and I am grateful for him. We both had children with our significant other at the same time and maybe we are here to help eachother out and exchange energy. I dont know why yet. I have been told that we have karmic patterns as the dilemma of our recognition and that he is being blocked…that he is confused on what he is feeling about me. It’s very interesting stuff…sounds almost surreal :)

  29. Hello, I would like some feedback on a connection (or perceived connection) I think I may have with this guy I’ve never met. Several years ago I was watching TV one day when I stopped for a few minutes on a show. There was this guy who I always thought was very good looking, then he started describing the type of girlfriend he wanted, and all I could think of was “that’s me! That’s me!” Everything he described was me to a T and I thought I HAVE to meet this person! Never have I felt so strongly in the moment about “needing to do something”. The tricky part is he is in the public eye which is why I never told anyone how I felt because of course they would just say he is who he is and I’ll never meet him. I’m certainly not one to idolize people like that so I know it’s not that. Over the past few years I have dated other men and went about my life but ever since have had very vivid dreams and visions of him, and while meditating also. One dream in particular I was so in love with this person, it’s almost indescribable. Certainly not a love or intensity I have ever felt in waking life. In my dream when I looked into his eyes I felt it was him. After several of these dreams I thought it might be a good idea to at least “try” meeting him so I went to an event were I knew he was. The person who was with me even mentioned that he was staring at me, and I caught him looking at one point also. Not just a gaze over the room kind of look but really “looking”. Another person literally crossed my path and turned out we knew the same people, and diverted my attention for the rest of the time. I figured if it was meant to be it would happen. Needless to say I didn’t meet him. I remember getting a feeling the next morning that lasted a split second but was very intense. The feeling was a “knowing” but if I had to describe it in words “that my life could’ve changed forever last night….oh my god I’m not ready for that” then I thought to myself “what? Are you crazy? Why would you not be ready?!” I have tried several times since then with no luck. The really crazy thing is that when I meditate and he pops in my mind, or certain things in my life go on, or if I’m just simply thinking of something and happen to check his web site , there will be a post or a picture of the same thing. Almost like he can feel what I’m thinking or going through or vice versa. For example, my grandmother, who I was very close to passed away and the day of her funeral he posted a picture of his grandmother. Another time I was researching about twin souls and the next day he posted a picture that was a mirror image of him. The last time I was meditating about all this craziness and said “if this is real and I’m not crazy give a me sign” I had a vision of him doing something, and no less than 5 minutes later he posted a picture of the same thing I had a vision of. Sometimes even when I see a picture of him and look in his eyes for a split second I feel like I’m looking at myself. Its really strange and I’ve never felt that before. My question is, if this is real, and we ARE connected then why has it been so difficult for us to meet? I’m torn between letting it be and if it’s meant to be it will happen vs. going after what I feel despite things seeming to work against it.

    • Hi sj3714,

      Thank You for being willing to share here.
      When I first started learning about twin flames it was because I was experiencing very strong twin flame activations. I was torn between wanting to find some peace of mind and seriously wanting to connect in my daily travels like I was in my astral travels. The feeling of being home in myself was, above all, what I have always desired.
      I have come to learn that there is strong planetary energy for twin flame recognition and reunion. Not always physically. It is up to You always whether to allow or to move forward. I hope that your moving forward and your allowing comes from a connected inspired place. That is all that matters and makes the difference in your results.

      I have come to understand that the more I recognize my twin soul the more I can recognize myself as a divine being. That being willing to know myself more fully and connect to the soul of me is the ultimate reason for coming together with or even recognizing my twin soul.

      When You feel called to do something from a centered connected place, go for it with an intention for the most benevolent outcome!

      In Heart Centered Awareness,

  30. hi
    i and a guy are working in the same office for the past five years.from the first day he used to talk to me nicely.even i felt like i know him for years.for the past 1 year iam feeling his presence.even if he is 100 meters away iam recognising his presence.but nowdays he is avoiding me what is happening between to solve this problem.

    • Hi Deepik,

      I have a sense that if You focus on how You feel about this individual, not how this individual might be feeling about You, your perception about what is happening will change. It seems he might not be feeling comfortable with the way You two are connected spiritually and he may not even be able to explain it. Your ability to understand it and find ways for You to connect more to yourself, the larger spiritual part of You will give You answers.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,

  31. Hello,

    I’ve had a boyfriend for 8 years and for the past 2-3 years in the relationship I feel like we have become just friends and I do not think that I am as attracted to him any more. This year, I randomly started texting this guy in a totally different continent and for some reason find myself extremely attracted to this guy even though communication is solely through text. We’ve talked on the phone once or twice and he often drunk texts me but I dont think he feels anything like i do. I find it extremely strange that I feel this way and what makes it even weirder is that I saw a psychic this year and she asked me whether I was keeping in touch with somebody over seas. When I said yes she told me that we were going to grow closer and closer and make each other happy. I feel like the fact that the psychic said this is provoking me to hold onto this relationship. If you could please provide me with your thoughts on this situation I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much

    • Hi Melissa,
      Sounds like You are at a cross road. If what the psychic said resonates for You then it makes your decisions easier. It is powerful to remember that he more You are connected to You, the more connected You can be to others. I intend each day to decrease the gap between my physical ‘self’ and the larger part of me the non-physical fully expanded ‘Self’. It is why the subtle yet profound language of spirit is so important.
      Many relationships at this time are fully catalysts for that greater connection with ‘Self’. In turn the greater connection with ‘Self’ causes beautiful fulfilling connections to happen easily with outdated pieces falling away with grace and ease.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,

  32. Hello!

    I would like some insights here with my current situation if you will. I met a man about three years ago but we didn’t get close or intimate until the end of the first year, entering the second year. The beginning of the first year, I never saw him more than just a regular customer at my store. I was also a busy new mom and very much in love with my boyfriend at the time. I recognized him as he was a regular customer and became acquaintance rather quickly but that was really it.

    Then suddenly, towards the end of that first year as we would exchange small talks when he’d come in, I started having an overbearing feeling that bubbled up inside of me that I would not be able to contain myself. I have never felt this uneasy feeling or way about anyone else ever. I felt I could love this man, perhaps I’ve loved this man before in the past lives. The energy was powerful every time he walks in the room. I would even dream of him. The people at work noticed my friendly crush without me even telling them about how I felt. Captain Obvious over here, apparently. Haha! It was strange and I felt guilty of it because I’ve never felt that way before and it was unfair to my boyfriend for feeling this way. Of course, he never found out.

    I have people telling me to just email him and let him know how I feel but I feel that he’s in a mess right now; head is filled with too much to handle so I wasn’t going to fuel the fire. I could wait until his fire fires down a little bit and perhaps try again or wait until he realizes that he misses me. I did, however emailed him recently letting him know that I miss him and that I care about him a lot. I got no response so I’m leaving it to that.

    Sorry, most parts of my story I could’ve skipped out but I guess I wanted to share how he and I could connect spiritually somehow and I guess I want affirmation. What do you think?

    • Hello Elvie,

      I have edited your comment of many of the details of your story as it was clear that You and he have a spiritual connection, that it seems You are very aware of. I would encourage You to use the connection as a catalyst in doing any personal work that would allow You to move forward in integrity and in alignment with your truth. So often the spiritual connection gets translated as partnership/sexual energy and attraction. It is up to us to refine our understanding and create new ways of relating that serve us. When there is this on/off again relating, often it is an indicator of personal work necessary on both parts. Even just your ability and willingness to connect more fully to your Higher ‘Self’ will support You in navigating this connection in a way that will serve everyone involved.
      In Heart Centered Awareness,

  33. I was so glad to find this! I thought I was going insane. I learned first hand in highschool that this can happen. I felt exceptionally connected to this girl and all throughout there was the overwhelming energy. Later on down the road one day while I was in class I suddenly had this feeling that something was wrong. Sure enough I found out later she had gotten into some trouble on the road. I felt this way about many different people since I was a child. Now I am at a crossroads because I feel almost scared at the idea of what I am capable of. Someone I used to feel this way about eight years ago suddenly started popping up in my dreams which took me by surprise. I hadn’t thought about him or felt this connection in years. Then the other day I felt this consuming sadness at the thought of not being able to see or talk to him anymore. I can’t seem to shake him out of my head and I can’t help but wonder if I concentrate hard enough could he feel me back? Help! Am I crazy?

    • Hi Jen,
      Thanks for writing. No, You’re not crazy! Just connected to the infinite stream of wisdom that connects us all. You can work on grounding yourself to stay centered when you receive this information. Have You tried contacting the people who pop into your head to see what they are up to? Perhaps there is some mutually beneficial reason to reconnect. You can also work on running your own energy and putting up energetic boundaries if You find picking up these feelings are bothersome. The Heal Yourself program may interest you.
      Again, Glad you found our site. We offer free distant healing days to those on our email list, if you’d like to keep in touch with us.
      Best wishes,

      • Thank you for replying! I wish I could contact him but the thing is, when I first met him it was through the music scene. Today he is now quite famous and therefore untouchable. If I really wanted to I could send him a message but it wouldn’t be private and he would probably think I was insane. I wish I could just shake this whole thing off but it’s consuming and powerful. I don’t understand why this is happening but there has to be a purpose. Doesn’t there? I’m afraid if I try and ignore it it will only continue in anyway necessary (usually dreams) until it has run it’s course. I just wish I understood the reason or purpose for all of this right now. It’s emotionally exhausting.

        • Hi Jen,
          I see in your conversation with Christy that You feel this individual is out of reach. I encourage You to be centered in yourself first and foremost. When You do this, the things that seem out of reach, when for your benefit can be much easier to access. If You can find ways to feel the joy now that You believe You would experience in being reconnected to this person then the Universe can help You. I have also experienced that the clearer and more specific the questions are that I put out to the Universe, the clearer and more specific information is delivered to me in return. Your guides are always available to help You if You ask!
          In Heart Centered Awareness,

          • Hi,

            Have just been reading this article and some of the responses and it’s so good to read that I’m not losing my marbles with some mad infatuation. My heart, my mind and my soul is always focused on someone who I have never met, but he is in the public eye. Not exactly someone you would say is attractive but to me he is beautiful and has a beautiful soul. I find myself engulfed in a scene of us together, sometimes just doing mundane things like cooking together, it comes through so clearly and powerfully. Almost as though it’s more of a memory than a fantasy. The problem is I feel awful as I am married to a lovely man and I shouldn’t be fantasising about being with another but I just can’t get him out of my mind. This has been going on for about a year now and I just want to be with him so badly and I dream about our lives together and were always laughing and totally in love. It’s almost as if I already know him so well and we would just fit together so perfectly.

  34. There was a woman about a year and a half ago that I randomly went to sleep one night and dreamed about. I was happily in a relationship at the time.

    I thouoght nothing of it. A few weeks later, I see a baby, wrapped in a white blanket. Again, i think nothing of it. Months later, I am getting out of a friends car, and as i reach the handle, I see my girlfriend with another man. later on, in July of last year, this happens. two weeks after they get together, I see an old man, in flannel, a straw hat, and a red truck. he sticks his head out of the truck and says thank you, before driving away. I then see this child, and it has blue eyes and black hair, which i have blue eyes, and she (the girl i dreamed of) has black hair. When we met i kissed her, and held her, and it freaked her out, because she saw a guy with blue eyes and dark hair that would hold her when she was little. I’ve tried three other relationships and even pushed her away 3 times, and something is always pulling me back to her. We aren’t talking, but i still dream of her strongly. What is this?

  35. Good Morning Judy,

    For almost a month and a half I’ve been feeling this pull from an individual I have never meet. I was on facebook about 3mths ago and I’ve never once looked at his page..then out of no where he posted a question about love that immediately caught my undivided attention which prompted my response. Ever since then I’ve been unable to shake this person. I’ve have viewed his page and from certain things that he post or pic we seem to be in sync with each other. Ever since then I’ve been implementing the “laws of attraction” and I’ve been picking up these bouts of energy from him. I feel his energy so strong sometimes it feels like flutters in my stomach. I constantly have these visions over and over of us meeting, having dinner and hanging out. Is it possible that he is aware of me and feels the same energy and spiritual connection. Every time I see us together or I reach him in my mind I see this light around us…its a soft bright white light. I would close my eyes and feel and see the light from inside me and I release it onto him through the air. Is it possible that he is receiving my energy and we have connected? Sometimes I would feel this strong energy it would be so strong that it make me queasy and I can hear him calling my name or feel his thoughts . I would read or watch some of his video post and its so surreal like if he is reaching out to me. It feel like what I wanted has manifested and the universe is answering and I’m on the receiving end. Have my energy already manifested his (mind, body, soul and heart)?. I’ve been meditating on him calling me. I see him in my mind several times standing looking at his phone as if to call and I can almost hear him talking to me. What do you make of this?

    • Hi Regan,

      It definitely sounds like twin flame connection. It is happening so often these days for so many. What I have come to understand though is that this connection is not necessarily about physical partnership to begin with. Often it is more about remembering the wholeness of self. I find that for most individuals I have worked with in this that meditating on all parts of oneself merging and stabilizing causes such a deep level of connection and understanding that any agreements in physical then have room to manifest with your twin.
      The twin flame reunion is a very strong catalyst for unconditionally loving self and releasing any resistance to that. It might be hard to imagine but Christy and I both teach that everyone is connected and communicating with one another on the spiritual plane all the time. Twin Flame connections are definitely stronger and easier to recognize. I wouldn’t be surprised to hear that he is picking up on You as well, even if he is not sure what it is that he is picking up on.

      I wish You well in navigating all of this and send so much light to your situation!
      In Heart Centered Awareness,

  36. Hi Judy and Christy,

    I’ve been having spiritual issues lately which made me search the internet to look for answers on spiritual connections and I was brought to your page. When I was reading this post and some of the comments I realized what I was feeling was not unlike the others.
    Over the past few years my psychic intuition has been growing, especially when it comes to this one person that I feel strongly connected to. The past year I have felt like I’m crazy. He is a childhood friend of mine. We have been in and out of each other’s lives for years. The most recent time we were out of touch several strange things happened. After I got out of a rough relationship with a different man, I realized what I had lost with my friend, it hit me at once like a ton of bricks, and I felt torn apart. It felt almost as if my soul was crying as crazy as that sounds. I didn’t understand why I felt this way because we were always friends but I was always preoccupied with my relationship that I was so out of tune with myself I didn’t recognize my own intuitions and feelings. During our time apart I would have dreams of him, it was literally him letting me know he was ok. Then his father, who had passed when he was a child, visited me in a dream, which brought me back into contact with him (This wasn’t the first time that his father would put me back in contact with him, he’s visited me before). This time was different, for the past year I have felt this strong connection that I cannot get rid of. It makes me feel like I’m crazy. I can sense him. Anytime that I’m going to hear from him, I feel it in my chest and in my stomach beforehand. Sometimes I’ll even see him. For instance, I was babysitting one night and I looked up and he was there standing in the doorway and then he disappeared. I knew I wasn’t hallucinating, i knew it was his spirit. Sometimes he will randomly pop into my head. The more I resist these feelings the more the universe slaps me in the face with messages until I get into contact with him. I know when I’m going to see him before I see him. And when we hang out together the way he looks at me it’s almost penetrating. Sometimes it feels as though there is a tether coming from my stomach connecting to him. I’ll get random thoughts of him and when I do I’ll get this surge of energy that builds in my chest. (It’s scary but at the same time it lets me know it’s right). I’ll even have dreams of him of exactly how he is in real life, nothing that I wish, he’s just there. He doesn’t usually talk he’s just there. Some dreams with him I feel like are foretelling of the future and some just a symbol of our relationship. I try to resist these messages because it makes me have feelings for him, but when I resist them, they only come stronger and I feel him more. I just don’t understand why I can’t stop the connection. Anytime I think of stopping it, it’s like there’s something telling me not to. I want to accept it but at the same time I don’t because I don’t understand it and I don’t know why this “relationship” in whatever form it’s supposed to be, needs to happen. I feel crazy. He pops up everywhere and it’s a little annoying. I’ve never felt this before and it’s both intriguing and scary because it feels like it’s a force beyond my own. I just want to understand it and understand why it is what it is.
    Is there any insight that you might be able to give me?
    Thank you.

  37. ya ive met a guy the first time i met him i couldn’t be in the same room with him it was too much too weird, i was glad when they left couldn’t even make eye contact there was a strong pull didn’t even talk too him i was kind of rude ( it was a very small 6 people birthday party). when a mutual friend died i was sad to hear that this guy moved far away and he was not coming
    it was weird that i was sad cause we never spoke too each other , then my husband left me and a month later he shows up sending me a message we must spend time together, so we did his really not my type of guy but i cant shake him off i try really hard he tells me when he has dreams of me and i dont tell him but ya same time i did . im not in love , but i cant let this guy go his pushing for a relationship and i think it might be a very good one as we both feel this judge amount of trust. i try to stay away cause his really not my type then i get tired and feel sick , then hill send me a message stop pushing me away, i dont think most is spiritual things i think human behavior and some underlying conscientiousness makes us think things are spiritual . but then again … lmao

    • Hi Melissa,
      Everything is spiritual, if you believe you are spirit in a physical body. Trust yourself and follow your inner guidance. Obviously you were feeling something for this man to have the reaction you did to him.

  38. I need some help with a situation.
    I met this girl in school and we started having a physical relationship. we weren’t a couple though. When school ended we went our different ways. But the entire time all I could think about was her. Then weird things started to happen. I moved to a different city. I shortly found out after I moved that she worked about two blocks from my house. We didn’t see each other at first. Months went by and again all I could think about was her. I also began to receive flyers for the dental office she worked for, with her picture on it. And I would see her car whenever I went to buy groceries.I got back into contact with her and we began to have another physical relationship. I wanted more she didn’t. And I also found she was in a relationship with someone else. So, I ended the sex we were having. It didn’t end too well that time around. I was really hurt finding out she was with someone else. We got into a small argument and stopped contact with each other.
    I still kept receiving flyers from her job, seeing her car, dreaming and thinking about her. Then one night I felt this strong pain and sadness. I actually cried and had pains in my chest. I knew it was her. I broke down and contacted her. And found out her relationship ended. We became friends again but we weren’t as close as before. We didn’t have sexual relations. I know i don’t love this person. But I feel we have some sort of connections.And she’s meant to be in my life but I can’t figure out why. It’s really hard to forget a person who is in my face constantly. What should I do?
    More important information about this woman. She told me she could read people. And could feel people that were close to me, through me. She can also stare at a person’s picture and feel or see things about them. She told me once that she “gets into people” and that her dad was called a brujo (witch) in Mexico.Is this a genuine connection or some sort of witchcraft? I really need help with this situation.

    • Hello Ruth,

      I trust that things are evolving how they are meant to. It is always a genuine connection. It is hard for us to recognize this if we limit ourselves to the physical world. Witches front he beginning of time have been in touch with the environment around them and in my opinion have in latter years been portrayed as something scary and negative due to lack of understanding. Whether a witch or regular person we see the ripple effect if they are not in integrity. When You get quiet and allow yourself to know what to do…it may not make sense and are You willing to follow the advice that comes from within anyway? I appreciate You sharing here and encourage You, in your relations with this woman, to get really clear in yourself so that any relating You do reflects that back to You. let the whole situation help You to know more clearly what You want and desire and then allow yourself to have that.
      In Spirit Centered Awareness,
      Judy Lynn

  39. This post is about a possible psychic connection between a man and a woman. I’m 39, and have worked in the same nightclub for 7.5 years. One of my bosses, a woman who’s 5 years younger than me has been showing up in my dreams a lot. Because of this, I’ve gone from thinking she’s kinda cute, to being completely infatuated with her. The dreams are not sexual in nature, but have a very strong emotional tone. Sometimes in the dreams she is breathing or whispering in my ear.
    During work our eyes meet often, and when they do, she either looks away or down immediately. I sent her a message on Facebook telling her I think she’s everything a man would want in a woman. She confronted me at work and told me to cut it out, and treat her in more of a professional manner. Since she’s my boss, and she had a bad breakup with a guy she dated who had a similar position as me, I guess it’s not in the cards for us right now, but I’m frustrated about it. Since this development, I’ve have had only negative dreams of her where she’s with other men and I’m jealous, or that she’s a professor and gives me an exam which I cannot pass because I don’t know the answers.

    • Hi Alan,
      I encourage You to get really quiet and check to see if what You are picking up on in your dreams are actually You running your own energy. Our “Heal Yourself” home study program helps with releasing others energy and cleaning things up. Often we pick up on energy that resonates closely to ours and through our dreams we process it. If You take time and honestly look at what it is that You believe You would attain by being with this woman and find ways to give that to yourself You will find the infatuation changing. If You are not happy with what You are experiencing in your current relationship it is time to deal, knowing that what You do not deal with in present will be recreated in any other relationship moving forward.

      • Hi, I know this is an old topic but I have a similar issue. I’m 23 years old, female and met a guy who is 27 yrs old at college. He helped me out during class when I was feeling heat exhausted and since then we have been talking. We seem to have a lot in common and I feel that we have made a link or connection with each other. I am empathic, meaning I can easily soak up someone’s emotions and physical pain. I’ve noticed that since we have touched skin that I keep having a telepathic message being put in my mind in repeat, “love me”. He has a history of anxiety and depression and I also have anxiety. He admitted to having an interest in me since the first day of class but never noticed him looking my way. So I’m wondering if I’m going mad or if he and I have known each other from a past life. I feel like we have known each other for more than we actually have and we share a lot of similar interests. Please share with me your thoughts. If you need more information just ask and I’ll oblige.

        • Hi Kayla,
          People always show up when we are ready ; ) I encourage You to understand what being grounded is and how to be grounded for yourself. It sounds like You and this guy have been connecting on the spiritual plane for some time. We all do, it is that You may be more sensitive to this than others. The grounding will help You to settle and enjoy this strong connection You have. The Heal Yourself Home Study is all about getting grounded and being able to understand the language of spirit.
          In Spirit Centered Awareness,

  40. I need some help with a situation.I am 32 year old and married.I met this guy in my office.I feel very confused & guilty at times thinking about this person.I love my husband so much and feel like i am betraying him whenever i think about this guy.Since my childhood,I always have strong intuitions about things happens around.My friends say its a sixth sense.I do’t what it is.Many a times,it has happened I get very strong feeling of something bad/good with my friends or loved ones and they turned out to be true almost 90% times.I am a spiritual person believe in doing good deeds and taking blessings of people,has never imagined myself in a situation like this.I have never been attracted towards any guy like this in my life. Don’t know why its only him.I know this guy since he joined office and its been almost 2 years now.Initially i have never cared when he is around.I started noticing him since we started to get to see each other so frequently that i realized it cannot be a coincidence.I go for a walk-I see him there,I go for a meeting and I see him there,I go for a cup of coffee and i see him there too.I have tried going a different timings as well but got the same result.Any place i name in office,I see him there.How can he be at the same place as mine always.When he look at me,i always feel like he wants to say something. Also,I have observed,he behaves differently when I am around.I try ignoring him many a times but he tries to grab my attention by doing some or the other gesture like getting up from his desk,start talking a little louder and so on….

    Its been few months now,I am strongly feeling his presence and absence.Many a times his thoughts ended up giving me teary eyes and i don’t know why.Sometimes,I felt he is there and i turned around he was actually there.When he passes by,It feels like some sort of heat.There are times when i didn’t see him for 2-3 days and didn’t even have a thought of him and then suddenly someday his thoughts occupies me and i get to see him.This has happened so many times,whenever i miss him,may be i should say miss his presence,i get to see him.We know each other as colleagues and had chat over IM related to work. He is respectful,decent,professional and a shy guy who never talks to anybody unless required.Though,he is not introvert either. Every time we are meeting we have an eye contact,i feel it is very intense and we both look away.I had visions of him doing something or accidental meetings through common friends and they all happened.He never showed any interest on social networking sites but when a common friend of mine tags me he always comments on that.When we are face to face he behaves like a complete stranger but i have seen him getting conscious when i am around.I have seen him stealing glances of me and my friends also mentioned the same. In fact,i caught him several times too.I really don’t know what’s going around.Please help.

    • Hi Trisha,
      I encourage You first to breathe. Your breath will help You reconnect with yourself in all of the energetic connection You are experiencing. Coming from a spiritual standpoint, attraction does not mean physical follow through. It has so much power in the ability to breath in a connection such as this and allow it to transform You while reminding You of your connection to all things. Admittedly some things we are more closely connected too yet the energy that is You is in all things as well. Attraction and recognition can stem from many things. Christy and I recognized one another immediately as we did energy healing together on the spirit plane way before we met on the physical plane. You can ask your spirit guides to give You clear information about what your role is in this connection and then accept nothing less. Your ability to stay grounded while dealing with the energy will help greatly as well. The Heal Yourself Home Study is all about getting grounded and being able to understand the language of spirit. It is always up to You and a spiritual connection always respects the agreements of man. Keep breathing and slow down to hear what is next for You.
      In Spirit Centered Awareness,

  41. I hi I met somebody I thought never would being the way I am
    Empath, etc. I feel this person everyday she can read my mind
    I can read hers .I never had this happen before I barely know
    her but, there such familiarity with her . even with emails
    and phone calls I growing closer to her even though shes a state away from me the sad thing is we both basically broke .
    But, I feel in time when meet each other it matter as much.
    Can this connection be called a Twin flame connection?
    This feels like something so much more we there for
    each other when one of us is down. and this just started
    in August. This at times is alot for me to take in.

    • Hi Jim, Thank You for sharing here. It sounds like a great connection. I know twin soul connections are increasing everyday. They are one of the most powerful opportunities for fully accepting one ‘Self’ and so valuable in bringing greater light to the world. It sounds like You and she need to do some individual personal work before anything ‘together’ would be really stable. If You can spend time in silence, after awhile You will start getting guidance spiritually about what is next to do moving forward with the twin soul energy.
      In Spirit Centered Awareness,

      • Hi , I hear voices or who ever they are every once and while
        they come to me . I believe they came months before
        I ever knew of her they said she needs me
        and she is lucky to have you in her life.
        I never came into contact with somebody that gets me.
        while is she not perfect I accept even with her faults
        which really need’s work on. I see a person
        that is capable of alot .
        Oh, seen images of our future that is another thing I would never expected in my life. Your right about personel work.

        • Hi Jim,
          The ability of the twin soul to reflect back to You clearly is a defining characteristic. If You allow this connection to serve You this way and look honestly at yourself, You will find that what You see is yours to work on personally. The beauty of twin soul is that the clearer one gets the easier it is for the other to get that clear as well. The ultimate is to reflect unconditional love to one another. The challenges on the way can be resisted or welcomed. I hope that when You look at look via the reflection You are gentle and accepting of You both.
          In Spirit Centered Awareness,

  42. I found this post today by Googling. I believe I am connected to someone I have never met. I wrote them a letter when I was 19. They wrote back and said they “felt something from” my letter, and wished me well. Many years later I wrote again, and they wrote back. I’m now 34 years old. I think about this person often. I feel like I love them. Sometimes I think (or hope) they think the same about me, but like me, just accept that in this life we are living our lives separately.

    The other night I had a dream that someone came to me and told me the person died. But before they died, they said to get a message to me that they loved me. I cried in the dream, of course. I didn’t wake up which is odd for me for that kind of dream. But in the morning, I had one long white tear track down my face, which prompted me to remember the dream. Is that odd? I suppose it’s all a bit odd, isn’t it? This is the one place I feel like I can talk about this and not have someone think I’m looney tunes.

    Today I meditated, and when I thought of this person I just sent them love and light and envisioned them laughing a big laugh or smiling a big smile. :) The hard part is, I do so wish we could be in each other’s lives.

    • Hi Jenee Day,
      I am so glad You feel safe to share here. I once was told by a psychic friend of mine that what You would like to attract in another You would be served to cultivate in yourself. The type of connection You talk of is often beyond everyday love/relationship understanding. The more You can come to know unconditional love for ‘self’ and others the easier it is to let go of expectations of how You believe life and relationship make You most fulfilled. When You set your intention to be in one another’s lives, know the Universe has heard and that the most benevolent outcome is on its way. Your job is to focus on understanding the unconditional Love and letting go of the how.
      In Spirit Centered Awareness,

      • Judy,

        You nailed it. Expectation is something I am working on releasing, in several areas of my life. Thank you for your thoughtful response. Thank you for saying the Universe has heard and will provide the outcome that is best. Comforting to hear and know.

  43. Hi Judy and Christy,

    Love this site, perfect for the question that I have. I’m a spiritual person, sensitive to peoples energies and practice shamanism.

    For years I have been wishing to meet a man one day that could be on the same spiritual page as myself and honor the medicine women that I and someone that we have a lot of common interests. All the men i have dated or seen exclusively could never understand that part of me and the relationships never lasted, i was always left heart broken.

    About 9 months ago I placed a stone on my altar that had randomly called to me when i bought it which was for finding your twin flame. I didn’t think I was ready for that because of my plans for travel and recent break up, but i did it anyway.

    Over this past summer, I had made the decision to visit a friend in canada who I promised months earlier that i would visit no matter what. When my spirit sisters and I arrived I met a man, a close friend of my friend, who just happen to be staying as well. I remembered him from Fb, we were acquaintances, but that was all.

    During a my time their which was only a week, i felt like i knew this person. Even though we hardly exchanged words, we had so much in common, just from what i observed about him and questions he asked. i was curious as to what that past might be. The night before i left, I asked my friend who is also a shaman, for a divination. The messages that came through was that yes we had a past and a tribal future. The spirits then asked me for a special request. To pray for this mans life during my travels to the jungles of Mexico the following the month. His life had been in danger which was why he was in canada at the same time as me.

    I told this man before i left about what spirit asked me to do for him on my travels, he was completely opened about it and even said he had seen that vision also about us working together in future ceremonies.

    After coming back to the states and before leaving for mexico, i had this strong feeling that I just met the man of my dreams. That he was going to be the father of my future children. I didnt know what to do with those visions and feelings, so i tried to let it go and focus on my trip.

    When i was in mexico, I did what spirit asked and prayed my heart and soul for this man’s life. I have never cried so much for someone who i barely knew in this lifetime but i had the strongest feeling that i wasn’t just praying for his soul but also for the man i would marry some day.

    I finally returned home, thinking that i had accomplished my mission and prepared for my permanent move to mexico. Me and this guy have stayed in contact, but its been very brief and I am always initiating the conversation. Anyway its been 6 months now and their has not been one day since I left canada that i dont think of him. This has been driving me crazy! I fantasies about him all the time, I vision my future with him, I dream about him more then i have ever dreamnt about anyone. He is in my head almost non stop.

    I finally got the courage to tell him a few months ago that i have deep feelings for him, i never said i was in love with him, just that he is always in my thoughts. His answer was sweet and kind but he never said how he felt about me, just confirmed that he will always be there for me and that we will do medicine work in the future.

    I took this like a gentle rejection and was ok for a while. Then it started up again where there he was in my thoughts, mind and heart all the time. This is driving me insane! It gets in the way of me being present in my day to day projects. He’s the first person i think of when i wake up and the last when i got to sleep.. Im thinking i just need to mediate more, but is there something deeper that i dont know? why is he constantly on my mind. I dont think i have ever really been in love before. I have had crushes, but they have never lasted this long.

    As much as i would love for him to be the man of my dreams i know that we both our not ready for a relationship right now because we are both about to focus full time on our dreams and spiritual healing and we live in different countries. Spirit has told me that they do like us together but that I have to be patient with him, its a challenge when he has never expressed how he feels about me, right now that part is just a mystery.

    Please help me find a solution, I feel like im running out of ideas.

    • Hello Ayesa,

      Your share is so genuine, thank you. There is no trick to twin soul happenings, they happen when and only when it is in the best interest of the twins and those around them. This lifetime or the next. It sounds like you would benefit from remembering that to have a twin come into your life does not necessarily mean a physical partnership. Often before that can happen there needs to be a reconnection with ‘Self’.
      Can you use this constant reminder to get centered in yourself in a new way? Do you embody the knowledge of yourself as Divine?
      You can also spend time with your twin on the spiritual plane getting aligned. Try intending that you are spiritually sitting facing one another while aligning and connecting up all of your chakras. Imagine that both your spiritual bodies and physical bodies are grounded to the center of the earth while they are also grounded to the center of the cosmos. Focus on your physical breath to stay grounded as well and see what shifts for you here on the earthly plane.
      In perfect time the Universe does a better job delivering to us than we could ever imagine!
      In Spirit Centered Awareness,

  44. Hello Judy I have a question
    Every now and then I dream about my first love in whom I haven’t seen in over twenty years. A part of me feels that he has passed and this is his way of reconnecting. I don’t think about so I dont understand what the message is. I don’t know if this helps, we are both pisces. I wish I knew what all this means.
    Thank you

    • Hi Pauline,
      When you really want to know what something means the ability shows up. Thank you for sharing here. Do you think it is possible for the energy of someone to show itself to us without passing? So often the understanding is just a story that we create in hindsight. What if you allowed yourself to just experience this past coming into your now and just allow it to evolve. There is nothing that comes into our lives that isn’t supposed to. And the things that do not come into our lives are not meant to. I encourage you to get very still in your body and your mind and the answers that you are looking for will come to you.
      In Spirit Centered Awareness,